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Closer - leaning against his shoulder to me - we're one of it poured into me - and I know I must be so. Know every nerve, every hair, every sweet pain to heart beat. And such a joy to obey this "need." Probably a piece of iron just happy to surrender inevitable, the precise law - and one `s in a magnetic field. Stone thrown up, a second waver - and then scooted down to the ground. And man, after the agony, finally breathe the last time - and die.
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Listen to my heart ... Do you hear? Clear sounds? Yes ... It beats ....
I'm alive. I'm alive. Alive.
And that's fine. Well, what can I give you the warmth, which it so carefully develops.
sorry ... You little? But I can not more ... No one can ....
Thank you. Thank you for what you are around. Do not go. I love the fact ^ __ ^
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Listen to my heart ... Do you hear? Clear sounds? Yes ... It beats ....
I'm alive. I'm alive. Alive.
And that's fine. Well, what can I give you the warmth, which it so carefully develops.
sorry ... You little? But I can not more ... No one can ....
Thank you. Thank you for what you are around. Do not go. I love the fact ^ __ ^
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About Love ...
I know that there is a mysterious feeling of love ... No kidding. Really know.
Love came up with us. We've put together tenderness, affection, honesty, respect and trust were mixed and were feeling very special, anything else does not like and called love ...
If you live without love, why? To hate or be indifferent to a log? Love dolgoterpima and merciful. Love does not envy. Love is not puffed up and proud. Love is not robchit, thinks no evil. She is not looking for benefits and not rude. Love leads to light. It always protects and always forgives. Love needs no words.
That feeling - the only holy, then what is left in people. And let the love - the feeling based on his tragic ... but it's the sleepless nights, the sweet torment, tears when have no more tears, painful illusion ...
People, if you want to survive ... love is sincere. And you will find happiness. Stop the engine of life for a moment and look around. This decline may be the last in your life at all fall for it! Otherwise, your life will be empty and meaningless ...
I know that there is a mysterious feeling of love ... No kidding. Really know.
Love came up with us. We've put together tenderness, affection, honesty, respect and trust were mixed and were feeling very special, anything else does not like and called love ...
If you live without love, why? To hate or be indifferent to a log? Love dolgoterpima and merciful. Love does not envy. Love is not puffed up and proud. Love is not robchit, thinks no evil. She is not looking for benefits and not rude. Love leads to light. It always protects and always forgives. Love needs no words.
That feeling - the only holy, then what is left in people. And let the love - the feeling based on his tragic ... but it's the sleepless nights, the sweet torment, tears when have no more tears, painful illusion ...
People, if you want to survive ... love is sincere. And you will find happiness. Stop the engine of life for a moment and look around. This decline may be the last in your life at all fall for it! Otherwise, your life will be empty and meaningless ...
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about girls talking about himself in the masculine ...
In general, all killed a me! I'm not a man! I am a girl. Beautiful, sweet girl. I love the things that stress my body, I love out those delicious perfume and this wonderful foaming bath! I love when guys look after me. I love heels, because they get higher and legs seem even slimmer. I love the cat, and sweet! I love the gentle words, and when looking out for me.
But ... I also love playing computer games, read gambling addiction, rave, laugh, to fight, bite, playing snowballs, wallowing in the snow, playing football, reading smart books, writing programs and throw their stuff.
A is not stand aside worrying about your manicure and hairstyle! Appeal to you guys! Do not see you on coughed * *... You look at the whole person!
Maybe that's why I was wrong to put the end, because so I'm really good at listening! And my "I got it!" taken seriously, than "I got it!".
It does not matter ... Hear, no matter what I say. I do this does not change, I will also laugh and also fooling around. And for most of my friends, guys I'm the most wonderful friend in the world ... And why, because they value me as a person and not, pardon me, look at tits
Well, apparently it's really not correct. And if that many strains. I corrected, and I'll follow the words ...
Thank you for your attention ...
In general, all killed a me! I'm not a man! I am a girl. Beautiful, sweet girl. I love the things that stress my body, I love out those delicious perfume and this wonderful foaming bath! I love when guys look after me. I love heels, because they get higher and legs seem even slimmer. I love the cat, and sweet! I love the gentle words, and when looking out for me.
But ... I also love playing computer games, read gambling addiction, rave, laugh, to fight, bite, playing snowballs, wallowing in the snow, playing football, reading smart books, writing programs and throw their stuff.
A is not stand aside worrying about your manicure and hairstyle! Appeal to you guys! Do not see you on coughed * *... You look at the whole person!
Maybe that's why I was wrong to put the end, because so I'm really good at listening! And my "I got it!" taken seriously, than "I got it!".
It does not matter ... Hear, no matter what I say. I do this does not change, I will also laugh and also fooling around. And for most of my friends, guys I'm the most wonderful friend in the world ... And why, because they value me as a person and not, pardon me, look at tits

Well, apparently it's really not correct. And if that many strains. I corrected, and I'll follow the words ...
Thank you for your attention ...
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once and I dissolved the snot ...
recently deleted the old notes in the contact, found one very interesting ... After reading it I went through mixed feelings. Kind of like and I wrote, and it seemed to not remember what my ... Change over time, although I was always confident that has not changed one iota. And as thought before now does not make sense. Maybe someone will be curious, I decided not to throw away ...
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often thought about what you deserve and what is not. People say that they know you, and to In fact, they are not even aware how far from the truth. It seems to me that sometimes I do not understand herself, what I want, what to do in any given situation ... But it is necessary to postpone the feelings you once you understand things like this. I hate it when you talk about your dreams, or to argue about the future with all the inherent you seriously, and people genuinely laugh, because I do not see that the boundaries between your emotions ...
as he wants to you no one noticed, not assessed, not trying something to teach. I know I will never find a man in spirit, because I know that such is not there. There are others, but such as I have no ... Why do I need, someone, for some reason ... Why have I created, what is the purpose of my creator? He threw all the responsibility on me ... You're not even to the end is not yet ripe, but you have dumped on the arbitrariness Fate, you are not supplied with any experience or anything else, simply say that under the blows of reality and survival instinct to learn everything you own. And now you're an adult people live alone, you have friends, ideas, life and future. You know a lot, such as the fact that you can not rely on others, should not show emotions no one to protect you, you're no use to anyone ... And in those same minutes you lie down on the bed, zabivaeshsya into a corner and as a young child begins to feel sad or even cry, because I just want to mother ... Want to feel loved, you want to take care of you and gave you everything you want ... It was a veritable paradise. But now this will never happen ... You flew from the nest, or rather you pushed, although it was still ... All
what was previously disappeared, evaporated ... And no one cares ... Yes, and you though it's time to stop mayatsya these thoughts, because because they're stupid and useless ... Need to grow up ...
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recently deleted the old notes in the contact, found one very interesting ... After reading it I went through mixed feelings. Kind of like and I wrote, and it seemed to not remember what my ... Change over time, although I was always confident that has not changed one iota. And as thought before now does not make sense. Maybe someone will be curious, I decided not to throw away ...
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often thought about what you deserve and what is not. People say that they know you, and to In fact, they are not even aware how far from the truth. It seems to me that sometimes I do not understand herself, what I want, what to do in any given situation ... But it is necessary to postpone the feelings you once you understand things like this. I hate it when you talk about your dreams, or to argue about the future with all the inherent you seriously, and people genuinely laugh, because I do not see that the boundaries between your emotions ...
as he wants to you no one noticed, not assessed, not trying something to teach. I know I will never find a man in spirit, because I know that such is not there. There are others, but such as I have no ... Why do I need, someone, for some reason ... Why have I created, what is the purpose of my creator? He threw all the responsibility on me ... You're not even to the end is not yet ripe, but you have dumped on the arbitrariness Fate, you are not supplied with any experience or anything else, simply say that under the blows of reality and survival instinct to learn everything you own. And now you're an adult people live alone, you have friends, ideas, life and future. You know a lot, such as the fact that you can not rely on others, should not show emotions no one to protect you, you're no use to anyone ... And in those same minutes you lie down on the bed, zabivaeshsya into a corner and as a young child begins to feel sad or even cry, because I just want to mother ... Want to feel loved, you want to take care of you and gave you everything you want ... It was a veritable paradise. But now this will never happen ... You flew from the nest, or rather you pushed, although it was still ... All
what was previously disappeared, evaporated ... And no one cares ... Yes, and you though it's time to stop mayatsya these thoughts, because because they're stupid and useless ... Need to grow up ...
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about the truth ...
"What is truth?" - Truth is - the recognition of reality, and the hypocrisy and lies - its negation, and thus a fiction. Is it something sublime only by virtue of the fact that not a substitute for reality. A man needs to recognize the reality in order to survive, if it is already gone. Or do you think that people close their eyes and run from it will be able to secure a a decent living? After all, it would still remain the same, regardless of whether you heed it or not. "A noble man seeking justice, low little people are looking for profits "- that's the truth, and is an attempt to cover up the gap between profit and equity." noble man seeks justice, low little people are looking for profits "- not involved in it for the truth. Any person seeking benefits for themselves ...
"What is truth?" - Truth is - the recognition of reality, and the hypocrisy and lies - its negation, and thus a fiction. Is it something sublime only by virtue of the fact that not a substitute for reality. A man needs to recognize the reality in order to survive, if it is already gone. Or do you think that people close their eyes and run from it will be able to secure a a decent living? After all, it would still remain the same, regardless of whether you heed it or not. "A noble man seeking justice, low little people are looking for profits "- that's the truth, and is an attempt to cover up the gap between profit and equity." noble man seeks justice, low little people are looking for profits "- not involved in it for the truth. Any person seeking benefits for themselves ...
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About Infinity ...
No infinity confirms its infinity. If all of course, certainly in its incalculable variety is infinite.
No infinity confirms its infinity. If all of course, certainly in its incalculable variety is infinite.
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About Life ...
good thing - life. It was not always happy. Quite often throws filth. But I love to overcome difficulties and move forward no matter what. A still life - the most complex and big game. To make it easier to live, do not take defeat to heart. Suffice it to believe that you can change things for the better. To survive in this world, save their own world. Imagine that we always will be all right. First, it will be like, then begin little by little annoying, but then get bored. Do you often get bored? Then you know what it is. Any trouble better. Gotta love this life for what it is. For the sun over your head, for good and evil, love and hatred, for happiness and sorrow.
To live well, to see and hear. We always help and guide. And we do not want to be so. And then grabs his head: For that to me? What is my fault? Yes that you deaf and blind.
good thing - life. It was not always happy. Quite often throws filth. But I love to overcome difficulties and move forward no matter what. A still life - the most complex and big game. To make it easier to live, do not take defeat to heart. Suffice it to believe that you can change things for the better. To survive in this world, save their own world. Imagine that we always will be all right. First, it will be like, then begin little by little annoying, but then get bored. Do you often get bored? Then you know what it is. Any trouble better. Gotta love this life for what it is. For the sun over your head, for good and evil, love and hatred, for happiness and sorrow.
To live well, to see and hear. We always help and guide. And we do not want to be so. And then grabs his head: For that to me? What is my fault? Yes that you deaf and blind.
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about hate ...
hate - naturally. Hatred is built into human nature. Recall-ka ... How often you experience bouts of anger and hatred to differ, including strangers and people. I am sure you would be happy cracked muzzle on the scales in your grocer's shop assistant, stuffed nose or head teachers, and trimmed cab at all crucified would be your will. Now, remember how often you feel the love of attacks passers on the streets. And how often do you meet the mat, if you send a floor, rather than to feel sympathy for this man? 100% of cases? Do any of you did not leave with a girlfriend or boyfriend, even if they were crying and really liked you? You? And you? Everything! Love does not affect us, but hatred is accompanied at every step. So we arranged. Arranged to hate the default.
hate - naturally. Hatred is built into human nature. Recall-ka ... How often you experience bouts of anger and hatred to differ, including strangers and people. I am sure you would be happy cracked muzzle on the scales in your grocer's shop assistant, stuffed nose or head teachers, and trimmed cab at all crucified would be your will. Now, remember how often you feel the love of attacks passers on the streets. And how often do you meet the mat, if you send a floor, rather than to feel sympathy for this man? 100% of cases? Do any of you did not leave with a girlfriend or boyfriend, even if they were crying and really liked you? You? And you? Everything! Love does not affect us, but hatred is accompanied at every step. So we arranged. Arranged to hate the default.
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Lilies ...
I go and noisily sucked the air around them ... The familiar smell ... faint ... What is it? Can someone perfume? Or some flowers? What's that smell?
I met you, I was late again. To somehow make amends, I not looking at you in silence stretched out chocolate. You smile sweetly and take her. We're walking. I want to take your hand, but I'm afraid that you're her vydernesh. How did I'm afraid ...
you coming and talking nonsense, I sometimes insert a few words and think about your hand. And then again I sensed a faint fragrance of ..., terribly familiar ... I whirled head to find the source ... but to no avail.
Around my house we have left, you can easily smile and waved to me, I went home. A mysterious fragrance gave me no rest ...
evening I was presented with a bouquet of lilies. They were lilies. It is their flavor. A little brighter than you need a little more intrusive, a little more than fine. Lily.
I go and noisily sucked the air around them ... The familiar smell ... faint ... What is it? Can someone perfume? Or some flowers? What's that smell?
I met you, I was late again. To somehow make amends, I not looking at you in silence stretched out chocolate. You smile sweetly and take her. We're walking. I want to take your hand, but I'm afraid that you're her vydernesh. How did I'm afraid ...
you coming and talking nonsense, I sometimes insert a few words and think about your hand. And then again I sensed a faint fragrance of ..., terribly familiar ... I whirled head to find the source ... but to no avail.
Around my house we have left, you can easily smile and waved to me, I went home. A mysterious fragrance gave me no rest ...
evening I was presented with a bouquet of lilies. They were lilies. It is their flavor. A little brighter than you need a little more intrusive, a little more than fine. Lily.
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only your sacrifice ...
Do you know why I keep losing you? Because I really unbeatable. I want to feel what it is be a victim. What does it feel the humiliation and pain. For me this game. And another way to prove to myself that I'm capable of anything. I can easily kill you. I can You insult, humiliate and hurt you. But somehow this role I am giving you. It's simple. You're an exception ... My exception.
Rather, it is some form of masochism. I do not know. For me it is just as mysterious. It is on your hand I'm waiting for a slap, it is from your blade, I expect a painful cut, from your words I'm waiting for rage rising in the depth of my feelings.
Know that your advantage that I can not kill you. And I can not ever. Even if I strongly hate. Because my whole body, each of its cell resists the desire to hurt you.
Yes, I can not resist, but not at full strength. As if you have power over me, which eventually binds me hand and foot, forcing you to obey.
I have killed many people, even those whom it was impossible to kill. When I did, I do not felt nothing. With you is every minute of the bout, it should be side by side and struggle with itself.
This is one of your advantage. I fight both with two. Do not think that this is too much? So I know in advance that you do not lose .... Themselves. After all, I remember invincible.
Though I and 20, but the blue-eyed boy of fourteen who lives in me and dictate the rules are much stronger than me. And I can not do anything with it.
Tell me! How to do you have subjected it? What have you done? Who he was really? Say! And then I'll kill you. Then I can do it ... I guess.
And maybe I'll always be at your feet. Looking at you from the bottom up simultaneously with the adoration and hatred.
Why do you want me? Kill me. I'm tired. Very tired ...
But again you throw weapons on the floor and hugged me, reproaching himself for having done it again ... Drops tears on my shoulder ...
Stupid. It's just a game. And the pain is temporary. And next time I lose you again ...
Do you know why I keep losing you? Because I really unbeatable. I want to feel what it is be a victim. What does it feel the humiliation and pain. For me this game. And another way to prove to myself that I'm capable of anything. I can easily kill you. I can You insult, humiliate and hurt you. But somehow this role I am giving you. It's simple. You're an exception ... My exception.
Rather, it is some form of masochism. I do not know. For me it is just as mysterious. It is on your hand I'm waiting for a slap, it is from your blade, I expect a painful cut, from your words I'm waiting for rage rising in the depth of my feelings.
Know that your advantage that I can not kill you. And I can not ever. Even if I strongly hate. Because my whole body, each of its cell resists the desire to hurt you.
Yes, I can not resist, but not at full strength. As if you have power over me, which eventually binds me hand and foot, forcing you to obey.
I have killed many people, even those whom it was impossible to kill. When I did, I do not felt nothing. With you is every minute of the bout, it should be side by side and struggle with itself.
This is one of your advantage. I fight both with two. Do not think that this is too much? So I know in advance that you do not lose .... Themselves. After all, I remember invincible.
Though I and 20, but the blue-eyed boy of fourteen who lives in me and dictate the rules are much stronger than me. And I can not do anything with it.
Tell me! How to do you have subjected it? What have you done? Who he was really? Say! And then I'll kill you. Then I can do it ... I guess.
And maybe I'll always be at your feet. Looking at you from the bottom up simultaneously with the adoration and hatred.
Why do you want me? Kill me. I'm tired. Very tired ...
But again you throw weapons on the floor and hugged me, reproaching himself for having done it again ... Drops tears on my shoulder ...
Stupid. It's just a game. And the pain is temporary. And next time I lose you again ...
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Because feelings are not a trifle ...
Hi babe, write a letter.
Though you away.
I think where you are, and how.
Because feelings are not a trifle.
I look forward to the time
how the station will come.
And shiver me not to appease any way.
After feeling - not a trifle.
I want to tell you I
How hard is it to me in a dream
see you, hug
And the hand to hold.
And in the morning to wake up again
And feel again
What do you all there, I'm here again
again to all.
And here I stand at the door
And I'm waiting for a sign
You know what I would say
What "feelings no trifle. "
Hi babe, write a letter.
Though you away.
I think where you are, and how.
Because feelings are not a trifle.
I look forward to the time
how the station will come.
And shiver me not to appease any way.
After feeling - not a trifle.
I want to tell you I
How hard is it to me in a dream
see you, hug
And the hand to hold.
And in the morning to wake up again
And feel again
What do you all there, I'm here again
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And here I stand at the door
And I'm waiting for a sign
You know what I would say
What "feelings no trifle. "
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Depression
Most blog posts are full of sadness, pain and despair. All of this is limited to one word - depression! Depression is even those who do not feel, and often masquerades as physical illnesses. Recently, crawling on the internet to I bumped into a very good site. It is called "The project is about Life." There is described a lot of very interesting things about our existence. There's nothing with respect to religion (it's not just another sect, do not be afraid), but a lot of practical advice for what to do if we give up, how to overcome the feeling of fatigue, and most importantly "how to live a full life and enjoy it. " Listen to them is really worth. Here's an example I want to try a way to "sleep deprivation". The essence of the method of deprivation sleep in the next - you just "miss" night. Well, for example, you wake up on Monday at 8 o'clock in the morning and decides to sleep deprivation. In this case, You do not go to save, as usual, on Monday evening, and keep awake all night and all day. You go to bed until the evening of Tuesday, at 8-10 hours night and sleep about 10-12 hours. It turns out that the period of wakefulness during one cycle of deprivation is approximately 36-38 hours. At the initial stage, deprivation is recommended to apply 2 times a week, later, with the improvement in the state - one day a week. This thing is really effective and it is used psychologists, and while it is absolutely no harm. And yet time and save! So there I found a bunch of very interesting information, can someone also interested. Most importantly the person who created this project is far from a fool and says things are really competent to heed))
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Most blog posts are full of sadness, pain and despair. All of this is limited to one word - depression! Depression is even those who do not feel, and often masquerades as physical illnesses. Recently, crawling on the internet to I bumped into a very good site. It is called "The project is about Life." There is described a lot of very interesting things about our existence. There's nothing with respect to religion (it's not just another sect, do not be afraid), but a lot of practical advice for what to do if we give up, how to overcome the feeling of fatigue, and most importantly "how to live a full life and enjoy it. " Listen to them is really worth. Here's an example I want to try a way to "sleep deprivation". The essence of the method of deprivation sleep in the next - you just "miss" night. Well, for example, you wake up on Monday at 8 o'clock in the morning and decides to sleep deprivation. In this case, You do not go to save, as usual, on Monday evening, and keep awake all night and all day. You go to bed until the evening of Tuesday, at 8-10 hours night and sleep about 10-12 hours. It turns out that the period of wakefulness during one cycle of deprivation is approximately 36-38 hours. At the initial stage, deprivation is recommended to apply 2 times a week, later, with the improvement in the state - one day a week. This thing is really effective and it is used psychologists, and while it is absolutely no harm. And yet time and save! So there I found a bunch of very interesting information, can someone also interested. Most importantly the person who created this project is far from a fool and says things are really competent to heed))
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Tell yourself: "Hey, buddy!
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What good is the destiny complain?
always something missing ...
With no time - no catch,
not someone else, but themselves become-
That wisdom is the simplest.
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Tuesday, November 23, 2010
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5 facts about modern men
How often hear phrases such as "extinct peasants in Russia? Extinct or extinct - a moot point. But what has changed - it's a fact. So what are they, the modern man? Sexologists, psychologists, anthropologists and sociologists have worked on this issue and that's what made conclusions.
They believe that they live is harder than their predecessors
On the one hand the men have become more thoughtful, understanding, caring. However, on the other hand, they constantly need to be a real macho, for In order to enjoy success with women. Often, modern men have no one to navigate. After all, even their fathers, not to mention the grandfathers lived in other times, themselves were quite different.
They have reduced sexual desire
Today, men are increasingly faced with the problem of low sexual desire. Still some ten years ago, the problem of decreased libido worried mostly women. Now she has touched, and many men. In addition, representatives strong sex exposed daily stress. If a man has problems at work are unlikely to sex will be enchanting.
They do not want a settled life
Enough often advanced as men try to delay the moment of fatherhood. They are more oriented toward an open relationship, and even if you build serious long-term relations, not in a hurry to have kids. Scientists have attempted to explain such behavior of men. If the modern woman seeking an educated man with a good works fine manners, and, among other things, ready for the role of her husband, she is not too many options, writes ivona.bigmir.net. Men are simpler in this respect - their field of choice more extensively. If a man has all these qualities, he can wait 5-10 years before they start to lead sedentary lives.
They want a woman provide family
modern men do not particularly care what the partner can earn more than he does. Their well-suited to the model of relations in which the woman herself provides, and additionally could provide and their needs as well. It is now quite normal to buy (Or rent) housing in the overall money or taking turns to pay in a restaurant. The current men think in principle: "better to cooperate and work together to intended purpose ".
They have learned to be friends with women
Men have learned not to consider (or considered, but less frequently), each more or less nice woman as sex object. They realized that the friendship with the opposite sex is very important. Indeed, in such a relationship can get huge experience. Who, no matter how the woman herself, it is best to tell their own kind?
How often hear phrases such as "extinct peasants in Russia? Extinct or extinct - a moot point. But what has changed - it's a fact. So what are they, the modern man? Sexologists, psychologists, anthropologists and sociologists have worked on this issue and that's what made conclusions.
They believe that they live is harder than their predecessors
On the one hand the men have become more thoughtful, understanding, caring. However, on the other hand, they constantly need to be a real macho, for In order to enjoy success with women. Often, modern men have no one to navigate. After all, even their fathers, not to mention the grandfathers lived in other times, themselves were quite different.
They have reduced sexual desire
Today, men are increasingly faced with the problem of low sexual desire. Still some ten years ago, the problem of decreased libido worried mostly women. Now she has touched, and many men. In addition, representatives strong sex exposed daily stress. If a man has problems at work are unlikely to sex will be enchanting.
They do not want a settled life
Enough often advanced as men try to delay the moment of fatherhood. They are more oriented toward an open relationship, and even if you build serious long-term relations, not in a hurry to have kids. Scientists have attempted to explain such behavior of men. If the modern woman seeking an educated man with a good works fine manners, and, among other things, ready for the role of her husband, she is not too many options, writes ivona.bigmir.net. Men are simpler in this respect - their field of choice more extensively. If a man has all these qualities, he can wait 5-10 years before they start to lead sedentary lives.
They want a woman provide family
modern men do not particularly care what the partner can earn more than he does. Their well-suited to the model of relations in which the woman herself provides, and additionally could provide and their needs as well. It is now quite normal to buy (Or rent) housing in the overall money or taking turns to pay in a restaurant. The current men think in principle: "better to cooperate and work together to intended purpose ".
They have learned to be friends with women
Men have learned not to consider (or considered, but less frequently), each more or less nice woman as sex object. They realized that the friendship with the opposite sex is very important. Indeed, in such a relationship can get huge experience. Who, no matter how the woman herself, it is best to tell their own kind?
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men dream of becoming housewives
Four out of five modern men experience the joy of the home and the opportunities round the clock communication with the family. Most of the stronger sex would not mind becoming a housewife and to plunge into life, filled with cleaning, cook and fuss with the kids.
To such conclusion experts of the University of Lancaster. They conducted a survey of 1,100 British workers and found that 82% of men would not mind leaving their offices and manufacturing and trade places with their wives. As it turns out, the best man's stress is removed ironing board, mop and process of making pancakes for breakfast.
"Obviously, the conditions of the modern world reshapes the traditional mentality. Men today - not working horses, and women - not tupeyuschie Housewives "- says lead study author, an expert on Management and collective leadership Dr. Carolyn Getrell. Modern fathers want to spend more time with their children, for that they are ready to abandon the most promising career. At the same time, the social fabric do not give to realize dreams. "Problems arise at all. Women have been forced to give up work to take care of children. A man that would have been happy to stay at home, are forced every day to leave him to return until the evening, "- says Dr. Getrelll.
Scientists believe that in the first place their views on sex differences should be reviewed by employers. This is the first step to a shift in public consciousness. Today time man-at-home is perceived as something unnatural. The same applies to the issue of maternity leave for the father. Usually, men go in the decree only as a last resort. With that legislation, even in Russia, admits the departure on leave for child care for both mother and father. According to statistics, exercise their right to less than 2% of Russian men.
For comparison, about a year ago a similar law was passed in the UK, and last spring was conducted national survey. It was found that one in five British wants and is ready to go on maternity leave instead of his wife. The first countries in which fathers from mothers to equate the rights were Norway and Finland. Here the laws are nearly 20 years. According to statistics, about 16% of Finnish men sit at home, while half of their work and provide family.
Four out of five modern men experience the joy of the home and the opportunities round the clock communication with the family. Most of the stronger sex would not mind becoming a housewife and to plunge into life, filled with cleaning, cook and fuss with the kids.
To such conclusion experts of the University of Lancaster. They conducted a survey of 1,100 British workers and found that 82% of men would not mind leaving their offices and manufacturing and trade places with their wives. As it turns out, the best man's stress is removed ironing board, mop and process of making pancakes for breakfast.
"Obviously, the conditions of the modern world reshapes the traditional mentality. Men today - not working horses, and women - not tupeyuschie Housewives "- says lead study author, an expert on Management and collective leadership Dr. Carolyn Getrell. Modern fathers want to spend more time with their children, for that they are ready to abandon the most promising career. At the same time, the social fabric do not give to realize dreams. "Problems arise at all. Women have been forced to give up work to take care of children. A man that would have been happy to stay at home, are forced every day to leave him to return until the evening, "- says Dr. Getrelll.
Scientists believe that in the first place their views on sex differences should be reviewed by employers. This is the first step to a shift in public consciousness. Today time man-at-home is perceived as something unnatural. The same applies to the issue of maternity leave for the father. Usually, men go in the decree only as a last resort. With that legislation, even in Russia, admits the departure on leave for child care for both mother and father. According to statistics, exercise their right to less than 2% of Russian men.
For comparison, about a year ago a similar law was passed in the UK, and last spring was conducted national survey. It was found that one in five British wants and is ready to go on maternity leave instead of his wife. The first countries in which fathers from mothers to equate the rights were Norway and Finland. Here the laws are nearly 20 years. According to statistics, about 16% of Finnish men sit at home, while half of their work and provide family.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Govt Canada How To Store Flour
What prevents women agree with men?
When problems arise in dealing with men? When actively courting ends and begins to live together.
COCHES DE SEGUNDA MANO
compañias seguros medicos
Conversion de Archivos
cuidados en el embarazo
diseño paginas web
presupuesto desarrollo web
seguro familiar
software para reservas
There are claims, disputes, quarrels, there need to talk solve problems, negotiate, but this way of communicating with men, girls learn in no hurry, why not?
compañias seguros medicos
Why do girls have to negotiate with young people and about what, If, as a rule, in the relationship first became interested in it. It's simple: who wants more, he is spinning. What do I need a girl to a guy interested? Hardly gripping his desire to know her rich inner peace of mind, though, as a supplement to the body of a good peace of mind can not hurt.
So ladies to attract the attention not exhibit positive personal qualities, and what better attract male attention - the body. All women's clothing, cosmetics, fashion, created expressly for this purpose. Can be formulated as follows: if a girl is good-looking, all that is necessary for successful negotiations with the man at the first stage of communication, she grew up.
young people when they are interested in the girl, ordered to negotiate, for example: a date, a pastime that specifically we do about entertainment, about provozhaniyah, etc.. The young lady in this case can be capricious, require diversity and options for her to have had the opportunity to choose best. Such a method of communication continues until it happens sex and cohabitation, marriage.
If a guy sex is not really built it did not meet expectations, then As a rule, the young man disappears, and she starts hysterically inquire where gone, why not ring, does not write. He got what he wanted, as a result of their negotiations with it, now he does not agree with the lady about.
If the sex is good, yes, and she is not particularly harmful, it is possible to live together or marriage. It's all complicated about sex guy has to negotiate is not necessary, but if you suddenly need, then the marriage is unlikely to be long, but there are many problems, from simple household, to financial. The girl has to apply the skill to negotiate with a man, a simple stamping feet and the requirement "I want" does not work anymore. And not, as there is - or the ability or desire.
Skills not, because nobody ever for girls to negotiate and agree boys do not teach. Position is simple: what is more, I'll agree with him, he is stronger, let the work itself.
no desire, because it attempts do not lead the desired result. Rolling tantrum, she thinks she agrees, but in reality - just emotionally bullies. After which concludes: with him bestolku negotiate.
Learn to be interested in a man
What should I do? As it is disgusting, became interested in a man. Ladies rarely do it. Is it true that girls are interested in men, as such, not as a source of implementation of their romantic desires?
Here is a typical situation. Guy comes up and by saying "The most beautiful girl in the world", presents a bouquet of flowers, then leaves. What will happen in her head? For example, a stream of romantic delirium: but that he wanted, but still fit as romantic, fun, it's probably .... That is, run a mixture of guesswork, which have no relation to the young man. She writes a hundred times more romantic fantasy than he could tell you in reality. The big guys do nothing, the young lady in the fevered imagination pereprobuet with everything from an innocent meeting in a cafe, a wild debauch to the sight of his former young man.
If "tsvetodaritel" more will not work, there is a chance of the coveted men become scoundrel, a womanizer. Of course! Why do flowers gave it all already imagine dreaming, but he decided not to implement her dream. Or perhaps the young man to do with it? Most likely, this is, but admit to himself - herself a fool, it's just impossible. And if you do not fantasize, and think about it? What really wants? His thoughts, aspirations, hobbies? How about this to ask what question to ask? Interestingly, the answer? Or not interested?
Girls, ask yourself questions. Be you an interest in hobbies, his men? How, how? Just ask, are involved?
know his business, business? What to do? You are good in this? Can you advise something sensible and to the point? Can at least discuss their problems?
What are his views on family and family life? As he thinks, what his responsibilities, right?
As he believes that your conduct its annoying?
Issues, certainly more than I wrote importantly - their willingness and ability to ask calmly reasoned talk, discuss, and find common, that together. Such negotiations would pull together and make joint life comfortable and enjoyable. Try it, unless, of course, interesting.
When problems arise in dealing with men? When actively courting ends and begins to live together.
COCHES DE SEGUNDA MANO
compañias seguros medicos
Conversion de Archivos
cuidados en el embarazo
diseño paginas web
presupuesto desarrollo web
seguro familiar
software para reservas
There are claims, disputes, quarrels, there need to talk solve problems, negotiate, but this way of communicating with men, girls learn in no hurry, why not?
compañias seguros medicos
Why do girls have to negotiate with young people and about what, If, as a rule, in the relationship first became interested in it. It's simple: who wants more, he is spinning. What do I need a girl to a guy interested? Hardly gripping his desire to know her rich inner peace of mind, though, as a supplement to the body of a good peace of mind can not hurt.
So ladies to attract the attention not exhibit positive personal qualities, and what better attract male attention - the body. All women's clothing, cosmetics, fashion, created expressly for this purpose. Can be formulated as follows: if a girl is good-looking, all that is necessary for successful negotiations with the man at the first stage of communication, she grew up.
young people when they are interested in the girl, ordered to negotiate, for example: a date, a pastime that specifically we do about entertainment, about provozhaniyah, etc.. The young lady in this case can be capricious, require diversity and options for her to have had the opportunity to choose best. Such a method of communication continues until it happens sex and cohabitation, marriage.
If a guy sex is not really built it did not meet expectations, then As a rule, the young man disappears, and she starts hysterically inquire where gone, why not ring, does not write. He got what he wanted, as a result of their negotiations with it, now he does not agree with the lady about.
If the sex is good, yes, and she is not particularly harmful, it is possible to live together or marriage. It's all complicated about sex guy has to negotiate is not necessary, but if you suddenly need, then the marriage is unlikely to be long, but there are many problems, from simple household, to financial. The girl has to apply the skill to negotiate with a man, a simple stamping feet and the requirement "I want" does not work anymore. And not, as there is - or the ability or desire.
Skills not, because nobody ever for girls to negotiate and agree boys do not teach. Position is simple: what is more, I'll agree with him, he is stronger, let the work itself.
no desire, because it attempts do not lead the desired result. Rolling tantrum, she thinks she agrees, but in reality - just emotionally bullies. After which concludes: with him bestolku negotiate.
Learn to be interested in a man
What should I do? As it is disgusting, became interested in a man. Ladies rarely do it. Is it true that girls are interested in men, as such, not as a source of implementation of their romantic desires?
Here is a typical situation. Guy comes up and by saying "The most beautiful girl in the world", presents a bouquet of flowers, then leaves. What will happen in her head? For example, a stream of romantic delirium: but that he wanted, but still fit as romantic, fun, it's probably .... That is, run a mixture of guesswork, which have no relation to the young man. She writes a hundred times more romantic fantasy than he could tell you in reality. The big guys do nothing, the young lady in the fevered imagination pereprobuet with everything from an innocent meeting in a cafe, a wild debauch to the sight of his former young man.
If "tsvetodaritel" more will not work, there is a chance of the coveted men become scoundrel, a womanizer. Of course! Why do flowers gave it all already imagine dreaming, but he decided not to implement her dream. Or perhaps the young man to do with it? Most likely, this is, but admit to himself - herself a fool, it's just impossible. And if you do not fantasize, and think about it? What really wants? His thoughts, aspirations, hobbies? How about this to ask what question to ask? Interestingly, the answer? Or not interested?
Girls, ask yourself questions. Be you an interest in hobbies, his men? How, how? Just ask, are involved?
know his business, business? What to do? You are good in this? Can you advise something sensible and to the point? Can at least discuss their problems?
What are his views on family and family life? As he thinks, what his responsibilities, right?
As he believes that your conduct its annoying?
Issues, certainly more than I wrote importantly - their willingness and ability to ask calmly reasoned talk, discuss, and find common, that together. Such negotiations would pull together and make joint life comfortable and enjoyable. Try it, unless, of course, interesting.
Saturday, October 9, 2010
What Can Look Like Chicken Pox
sex and money. Reflections of one of the readers of this blog
Sex and money, or something material - things are not quite compatible. They live in different homes and are sleeping in different beds.
The fact is that women who want sex, choose their men who have sex do. And women who want money, do not choose a man, but his money. The very same man comes in addition to their money. Similarly, same occurs in men. Everything would be fine and wonderful - to each his own. But the problem lies in the total quantity discrepancy concerned parties.
men who love sex, much more than men, loving money and are interested in earning them. All right - otherwise the human race is not have survived on our planet. Women just love the money, the opposite is much more than the women who love sex (notably in Russia). And it is also reasonable to - Otherwise we would have long been overpopulated planet.
man fixated on making money, losing their sexual skills, or does not acquire them at all. He there is simply no time for it. He is so busy that he had no time even to look for partner. Therefore, he chooses what is easier - one of those women who are themselves looking for him. A search it is those women who need the money men. Thus, lovers of money are similar to their fans. I personally know men who are so busy they just ask others to acquaint them with the woman.
Men who are lovers of sex their entire lives in search of an ideal partner for sex, dismissing while lovers of money. They have too much time searching for the simple reason that they are not hung up making money. Men are looking for a woman, until she was found. And in the future doing everything not to lose - after all lovers of sex is not enough.
Do money men an opportunity to get acquainted not with his lover money, and with amateur sex? Virtually none. First round money men are already swirling lovers of their money, so man is doomed. Secondly, a lover Sex is also no time to look for partners, they are at this time just having sex. And that means they already have partners. And thirdly, those who like sex a lot less than lovers of money, and therefore the chances for such a meeting for men less. Well, if the meeting happens, then the couple did not live long because of their complete mismatch. A man interested in making money, and a woman in sex.
If good sex - it's the best thing a man can give a woman, then he told her that sex and gives. And gives his whole life. The man who sexually give nothing, starts looking for a substitute for sex. Thus begins the pursuit for money.
regularly engaged in sex man as a man and a woman - smells like sex. Smell sex attracted to it just like it. A lover of money on the contrary - it smells the money and everything related to money. And the smell, too, flock to the same material as he fans. Everyone has something that is looking for.
Can Do women and men in one day change its focus from money to sex or vice versa? Women, as the most flexible in social terms - yes. Men may too, but I do not personally know any.
If you are young and have not decided yet what you are an amateur, I suggest you answer one question.
men.
When you think about sex, you usually remember the last dream about sex and sex is not possible (eg a celebrity), or sex with a real plan educate women?
If the former, then you probably can not give sex to women and therefore already oriented earnings. After all, for sex with a celebrity, to It must somehow get through. The money opens many doors. Those who are planning to sex with a real woman, those plans and then implement.
women.
When you think about a particular man, do you normally present sex with him or something, where he will lead you and that he will tell you (give)?
If the former, it means that in you slumbering lover sex. In the second case - you are a lover of future money.
Sex and money, or something material - things are not quite compatible. They live in different homes and are sleeping in different beds.
The fact is that women who want sex, choose their men who have sex do. And women who want money, do not choose a man, but his money. The very same man comes in addition to their money. Similarly, same occurs in men. Everything would be fine and wonderful - to each his own. But the problem lies in the total quantity discrepancy concerned parties.
men who love sex, much more than men, loving money and are interested in earning them. All right - otherwise the human race is not have survived on our planet. Women just love the money, the opposite is much more than the women who love sex (notably in Russia). And it is also reasonable to - Otherwise we would have long been overpopulated planet.
man fixated on making money, losing their sexual skills, or does not acquire them at all. He there is simply no time for it. He is so busy that he had no time even to look for partner. Therefore, he chooses what is easier - one of those women who are themselves looking for him. A search it is those women who need the money men. Thus, lovers of money are similar to their fans. I personally know men who are so busy they just ask others to acquaint them with the woman.
Men who are lovers of sex their entire lives in search of an ideal partner for sex, dismissing while lovers of money. They have too much time searching for the simple reason that they are not hung up making money. Men are looking for a woman, until she was found. And in the future doing everything not to lose - after all lovers of sex is not enough.
Do money men an opportunity to get acquainted not with his lover money, and with amateur sex? Virtually none. First round money men are already swirling lovers of their money, so man is doomed. Secondly, a lover Sex is also no time to look for partners, they are at this time just having sex. And that means they already have partners. And thirdly, those who like sex a lot less than lovers of money, and therefore the chances for such a meeting for men less. Well, if the meeting happens, then the couple did not live long because of their complete mismatch. A man interested in making money, and a woman in sex.
If good sex - it's the best thing a man can give a woman, then he told her that sex and gives. And gives his whole life. The man who sexually give nothing, starts looking for a substitute for sex. Thus begins the pursuit for money.
regularly engaged in sex man as a man and a woman - smells like sex. Smell sex attracted to it just like it. A lover of money on the contrary - it smells the money and everything related to money. And the smell, too, flock to the same material as he fans. Everyone has something that is looking for.
Can Do women and men in one day change its focus from money to sex or vice versa? Women, as the most flexible in social terms - yes. Men may too, but I do not personally know any.
If you are young and have not decided yet what you are an amateur, I suggest you answer one question.
men.
When you think about sex, you usually remember the last dream about sex and sex is not possible (eg a celebrity), or sex with a real plan educate women?
If the former, then you probably can not give sex to women and therefore already oriented earnings. After all, for sex with a celebrity, to It must somehow get through. The money opens many doors. Those who are planning to sex with a real woman, those plans and then implement.
women.
When you think about a particular man, do you normally present sex with him or something, where he will lead you and that he will tell you (give)?
If the former, it means that in you slumbering lover sex. In the second case - you are a lover of future money.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Letter For Pregnant Women
site woman.ru recently found an interesting correspondence is just on the topic. Bring her with their comments.
One woman asked her tribeswoman:
itself raises her son alone, and I notice that compared with boys growing even with a father or mother, my one lost and not confident. Went on 1 September to him in class and noticed such a thing: a boy growing up without fathers sit as a silent, but those who have the pope live in families on the contrary, such a loud, aggressive in a good sense of the word.
I do not know, maybe my question will certainly to whom it is not relevant. because I understand that a single mom, a priori, has financial problems in our country and certainly not to the point that would pay vnimaenie on such trifles.
But still, I think that a woman alone without a father can not raise a real man. All the same, the boy will be missed masculinity and there will be more feminine qualities.
And it's not in the boxing circles, and that women are simply not able to give him a male perspective on the world. He sees the world mother's eyes. so this boy grows feminine and weak.
That's my point of view. What do you think?
I see this woman is subconsciously generate a model man. Probably it happened at the family-based parent. And it is concerned about what her son did not fit in this model. Itself is not aware of it raises the question of significant changes in modern society. Changes in gender roles in society.
Here is also some comment to post this woman.
Yes, you ARE a son wimp, what you say? - wrote one of the readers
And also clearly manifested the same model, which is not quite the same as the modern one. A man should be so athletic hero who look down on everything and overcomes all difficulties. This is the same as that of all women compared to a fashion magazine cover, where the pose of the model.
Here's another comment
author of course you are right, but on the other hand, a male view of the world can give the modern man? That lie on the couch is the norm that women should work, but man sit at the computer and run a beer:
Here is an explicit requirement to divide the resistance and wear of the household at least.
And here's a comment on this comment. This man has already said:
Yes it is this pattern of behavior postseksistkaya man should be vaccinated every boy, otherwise it all life will be like a slave to plow the woman and by the age of forty skates throw even well if by that time his wife will not leave, but is likely to quit, because respect for him will not, but love and a fortiori
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Benzoic Acid And Quinine In Dichloromethane
What is Gender?
When I began to delve into more detail in the subject met with such terms as "gender". To tell the truth before anything about him never heard but now I see that even a dictionary genderskih terms. Therefore found the definition, or rather a few continue to give them.
WHAT IS GENDER?
Gender is a definition of men and women on the basis of their social role. This is not the same as that sex (biological characteristics of men and women), and not the same, that woman. Gender is determined by the concept of tasks, functions and roles, intended society to women and men in their social and personal life.
[Gender Aspects: Practical Applications.
Swiss Agency for Development and Cooperation]
gender approach differs in that it focuses on women and men, but not for women alone. Gender approach highlights:
differences between the interests of men and women even within the same household, how they interact and are expressed;
tradition and hierarchical representations that determine the position of women and men in the family, community and society in general, by which men usually dominate women;
differences among women and men based on age, wealth, national supplies and other factors;
direction of change in gender roles and relationships, often occurring quite rapidly as a result of social, economic and technological trends.
[Wijk and Francis, 1999]
Gender equality means equal enjoyment by women and men socially valuable goods, opportunities, resources and rewards. Gender equality does not mean that men and women are equal, but that their opportunities and life chances are equal.
Gender analysis takes into account the social and economic differences between women and men at every stage of policy development to:
identify potentially different impact of policies, programs and legislation that affects women and men;
provide equivalent results for women and men, boys and girls, the conduct and planning of measures.
[Canadian International Development Agency]
Make Gender an integral factor in relation to water defined by the World Water Vision is as follows:
«Gender approach includes consideration of both practical and gender needs, such as improving conditions for women through the provision of water and sanitation close to home and strategic gender needs: improving women's status in society increases its awareness of the situation and the ability to take solutions and affect change. Gender approach also seeks to prevent further burdening women and emphasizes the importance of not strengthen and perpetuate the traditional roles automatically. This implies the need to address both men and women because men must change their attitude and behavior to support this process. "
[World Water Vision, 1999]
word "gender" from grammar zaimstvovoval and introduced into the behavioral sciences sexologist John Money, who in 1955 in the study of intersexuality and transsexualism required to separate, so to speak, obschepolovye property, sex as a phenotype of sexual-genital, sexual and erotic and sexually prokreativnyh qualities. Then it became a widely used sociologists, lawyers and American feminists. In this case, it has always been a multi-valued.
In the social sciences and especially in feminism, "gender" acquired a narrower meaning, denoting the "social sex", that is socially constructed roles, identities and activities of men and women, not dependent on biological sex differences, but on the social organization of society. Central place in gender studies to the problem of social inequalities between men and women.
word gender in English, the distinguished masculinity or femininity of the person, some characteristics or non-human organism. The division into male and female is similar to the division into male and female in bilogii.
In countries where the development of documentary Proof of identity, social sex is usually the same as set forth in documents the floor, ie passport floor, excluding cases of transgender
Gender (social sex) in a broad sense, does not necessarily coincide with the biological sex of the individual with his or her sex education or with his / her passport floor.
normally in society we can distinguish two genders - male and female, but a set of genders is much wider community, there are four or more genders. Social sex witch, for example, did not coincide with the social gender of ordinary women and the social role was closer to the male social floor.
When I began to delve into more detail in the subject met with such terms as "gender". To tell the truth before anything about him never heard but now I see that even a dictionary genderskih terms. Therefore found the definition, or rather a few continue to give them.
WHAT IS GENDER?
Gender is a definition of men and women on the basis of their social role. This is not the same as that sex (biological characteristics of men and women), and not the same, that woman. Gender is determined by the concept of tasks, functions and roles, intended society to women and men in their social and personal life.
[Gender Aspects: Practical Applications.
Swiss Agency for Development and Cooperation]
gender approach differs in that it focuses on women and men, but not for women alone. Gender approach highlights:
differences between the interests of men and women even within the same household, how they interact and are expressed;
tradition and hierarchical representations that determine the position of women and men in the family, community and society in general, by which men usually dominate women;
differences among women and men based on age, wealth, national supplies and other factors;
direction of change in gender roles and relationships, often occurring quite rapidly as a result of social, economic and technological trends.
[Wijk and Francis, 1999]
Gender equality means equal enjoyment by women and men socially valuable goods, opportunities, resources and rewards. Gender equality does not mean that men and women are equal, but that their opportunities and life chances are equal.
Gender analysis takes into account the social and economic differences between women and men at every stage of policy development to:
identify potentially different impact of policies, programs and legislation that affects women and men;
provide equivalent results for women and men, boys and girls, the conduct and planning of measures.
[Canadian International Development Agency]
Make Gender an integral factor in relation to water defined by the World Water Vision is as follows:
«Gender approach includes consideration of both practical and gender needs, such as improving conditions for women through the provision of water and sanitation close to home and strategic gender needs: improving women's status in society increases its awareness of the situation and the ability to take solutions and affect change. Gender approach also seeks to prevent further burdening women and emphasizes the importance of not strengthen and perpetuate the traditional roles automatically. This implies the need to address both men and women because men must change their attitude and behavior to support this process. "
[World Water Vision, 1999]
word "gender" from grammar zaimstvovoval and introduced into the behavioral sciences sexologist John Money, who in 1955 in the study of intersexuality and transsexualism required to separate, so to speak, obschepolovye property, sex as a phenotype of sexual-genital, sexual and erotic and sexually prokreativnyh qualities. Then it became a widely used sociologists, lawyers and American feminists. In this case, it has always been a multi-valued.
In the social sciences and especially in feminism, "gender" acquired a narrower meaning, denoting the "social sex", that is socially constructed roles, identities and activities of men and women, not dependent on biological sex differences, but on the social organization of society. Central place in gender studies to the problem of social inequalities between men and women.
word gender in English, the distinguished masculinity or femininity of the person, some characteristics or non-human organism. The division into male and female is similar to the division into male and female in bilogii.
In countries where the development of documentary Proof of identity, social sex is usually the same as set forth in documents the floor, ie passport floor, excluding cases of transgender
Gender (social sex) in a broad sense, does not necessarily coincide with the biological sex of the individual with his or her sex education or with his / her passport floor.
normally in society we can distinguish two genders - male and female, but a set of genders is much wider community, there are four or more genders. Social sex witch, for example, did not coincide with the social gender of ordinary women and the social role was closer to the male social floor.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Small Portion Diet Workout
Modern idea of \u200b\u200bthe perfect man
This is a serious reflection on the basis of current research. Here is an article by Olga Zdravomyslova from internet magazine Women and Society
Against the backdrop of social and political upheavals of the last time, few people pay attention to more subtle changes. Nevertheless, they have profound and lasting effect on the whole structure of our lives, as inherited from the past affect the notion of norm and deviation from the norm, of duty and freedom, the social roles that people should play. To the phenomena of this kind belongs and what is happening before our eyes, change the male role in society.
For the successful functioning of a society man, by definition, the French sociologist D. Berto, and K. Delkrua requires a "double reinforcement": professional employment and family. But by the end of the twentieth century, self-affirmation and men in family and in professional fields is more complicated.
Acquisition and preservation of the status of a male husband and father has become a serious social problem because of rising divorce rates and increasing the number of children born out of marriage. The scale of this process following figures: in "safe" countries of the European Community, the index of the number of divorces per 1000 population increased more than threefold between 1960 and 1992. In the past five years the process has slowed somewhat, but this is due not so much a tendency to strengthen the family, how much reduction in the number of marriages. In the European community, the number of children born outside marriage has increased from 8,8% per cent in 1980 to 20% in 1992. Number of families with one parent (usually - the mother) was in the early 1990's, about 11,2% of all households.
Along with the threat of loss of spousal and paternal roles, being erosion and the role of professional men. First of all, this is due to the growing threat of unemployment, increasing its size. Job loss or change, requires reducing the ambitions to become an indispensable part of life experience of a growing number of men. In addition, in the professional field intensifies competition between men and women. Professional competition "infiltrated" and the family. In the early 1970's Western sociologists have attempted to investigate and describe a family of two working spouses and family with two careers "as a fundamentally new styles, giving birth to new relations in the sphere of family power and new types of conflicts. Changes that inevitably occur in these families affect both marital and parental roles.
a growing number of Western studies describe the change in male roles in society through the term "crisis of masculinity." It is expressed primarily in the fact that the so-called traditional norms male behavior, which form a stereotype of masculinity, digestible boys and young men in the course of socialization, all in less of a success or even a simple adaptation of an adult male in society. Identify several basic rules on which the image of a "real man":
- avoidance behavior any hint of femininity, a ban on emotion, that is the extreme restraint in the expression of feelings (especially such as tenderness, love, trust, weasel),
- constant striving for achievement and social status, self-confidence,
- aggressiveness,
- intolerance towards homosexuals,
- high and "reckless" sexuality.
man with such a set of qualities, appears as an overbearing and hard winner, designed to dominate the family and society. It is assumed that he was always able to achieve the set - even the highest - goals, certainly benefit from a competitor who turned down for some reason at the height requirements carefully the requirements of man. Such a hero, of course, need a friend code of conduct which all opposites, and the scope of activities which, in practice, does not intersect with the "masculine".
No need to prove that the reality in which we live, rejects the strict regulatory both female and male roles. However, the rate of female roles were much more flexible, able to change and femininity in the minds of men are much less identified with weakness and passivity, masculinity than with physical strength and the desire for dominance and high social achievements. The secret lies in the fact that for a long time these qualities men to ensure effective execution of its key role in society - the role of family breadwinner. The famous explorer cultural anthropologist Margaret Mead, believed that the role of "social invention" and the specifically human values. Its essence is as follows: "Future a man learns that when he grows up, one of the essential things that he would have to do to become a full member of society, will ensure food of some woman and her offspring. Even in very simple societies, few men can shirk this responsibility and become vagrants misanthropes, living in solitude in the woods "(Margaret Mead, Culture and the world of childhood, MA, 1988, s.312).
Looking at how to make a" simple society ", and watching life is changing today's complex societies, Margaret Mead warned that the male role of breadwinner of the family "may be lost" (ibid.. s.309). Perhaps it is This subconscious fear of humanity is due to the persistence and even a kind of renaissance, which is experiencing periodic image of the "classical" masculinity. In Russia, this fear manifests itself much stronger than in the modern West.
turn to the contemporary Russian experience of socialization boys and young men, which is built on the images of characters in the film-fighters, "the new heroes of the modern Russian business. Here you can mark all over apparent compromise of the "classical" intellectual, unable to succeed in the "cool business" and therefore losing in the eyes of young people every attractiveness and prestige. Society as it asks the man: if you're not a winner in a fierce struggle for money and influence, then who are you? And he answers quite specifically: you are not a man because you can not even keep their family "at the proper level." As in "simple societies" described by Margaret Mead, the requirement a family, we counted men as not just a principal, but the only duties.
In early 1990 we conducted a comparative study "The Family: The East-West" in Russia and several European countries. His results showed that it was among the Russian respondents was highest percentage of family men are uniquely focused on professionaldnuyu sphere - 11% percent. In West Germany, this group was 5%, in Poland - 4%, in Eastern Germany - 3%, while in Hungary and Sweden - only 2%.
By the number of "family-oriented" men's Russia (19%) "like" only in West Germany (18%), the only country in our study, where among male respondents was the largest group of non-working wives, husbands, that is actually the "sole breadwinner". In all other countries this group of "family-oriented" men appeared in a half to two times higher. The respondents' answers to questions about the intra-life showed that tendency to design a new male role, which is typical for European countries, Russia is much weaker, and the "crisis of masculinity", according to some results much brighter. Thus, the Russian men twice as likely to express dissatisfaction with their relationships with children and the marital relationship. At the same time, they are four times more likely to argue that "the participation of the father in child care creates many problems." The vast majority of Russian men are considering the period When his wife was taking care of the child, as an exceptionally hard time, complicated by frequent family conflict. In general, their responses provide distinct impression that the family man in Russia exist within a very rigid rules and little choice: they must be either a traditional "Getters" or provide a full and final losers.
This result is quite unexpected, given the numerous studies of Soviet time show that in our recent past, the trend towards equality was dominant in the family. "Basic" Soviet model - a family with two working spouses - Was certainly not perfect, but its principal novelty in comparison with the past was that working outside the home the wife was sufficiently independent figure and could vapolnyat role as an independent, and sometimes even the main, the breadwinner in the family. Interestingly, in the Soviet Equitable family, functioned in much least due to the double employment of women, kept longing for the traditional norms and the actual reproduction of them primarily in sotsializitsii boys and young men.
In 1995, I conducted a survey among students in Moscow and economists. They described the modern successful Russian businessman, as if having before my eyes above standards of conduct "real" men. The boys pointed out that he needed rigidity and cruelty, authoritativeness, aggressiveness, perseverance in achieving goals, self-confidence and secrecy. And explained that the world is for strong men. " As you can see, the modern Russian society is actualized traditional norms of masculinity: to live outside the family, who nevertheless yavletsya important indicator of social status of men, and that You must be able to contain. Deviation from these norms is facing failure and even collapse of the real life. And because the stay on the normal "Average" in Russia is becoming more and more difficult, a man increasingly at risk of losing status, including family.
But if you still take more than one only the "monetary value" of life, no matter how true it is now in Russia, and a broader perspective and to remember our own recent experience, it appears that "the crisis of masculinity" is not fiction. Culture imperiously requires a change in rigid norms of male behavior and retention in the minds and experiences of new generations other social and psychological skills who have an obvious contradiction to traditional norms of male behavior. The question arises: is not followed Does the wake of the destruction of the traditional model of male breadwinner model of fracture behavior in general? What is the output is possible here?
Research last years have shown that today's young men in the West much more than their fathers, self-actualization became associated with family life and a relatively with fathers, with less self-affirmation in the professional arena. One could even argue that they are no longer just want to "have" a family as a reinforcement of their social status, but they want to "be" in it. One indication of this is that modern fathers have significantly more delve into the upbringing of children, spend more with time and even take in relation to children of traditionally "parent" responsibilities.
This trend was significant enough to begin to describe the modern family-oriented men as a social phenomenon of post-industrial society. For example, the Norwegian sociologists Halter, Aarseth and Nilsson were able to distinguish among the "family-oriented" men four typical shapes. First of all, - a man for whom family is a continuation of career and who through relationships with children as it increases their overall social competence. Secondly - is "a caring man" who, really, deeply emotsiolnalno included in home life, in relationships with children, seeing the family home in the sphere of its realization. Third, - "a fair man," taking on part of family responsibilities that it performs consistently and regularly. And finally - the "family idealist," which strongly extols family, announces it as their main asset, but in fact, carries a sharp line between the home and professional life while participating in the first only in word-level recognition of the importance of "family ideology".
new demands of life is reflected in the modern idea of \u200b\u200bthe perfect man. Studies conducted in 1995 in Sweden B. Bergsten and M. Back Vikling showed that most of the "ideal" consists of "twelve characteristics. The procedure most often upominiemyh as reflecting their importance to respondents of men and women. From the perspective of the men themselves, the ideal man should be - honest - well educated - just, - Cheerful - delicate - reliable - responsible - energetic - confident, - quiet, - resourceful - able to empathize.
From the standpoint of women, modern perfect man - honest - delicate - is capable of empathy - well educated - resourceful - cheerful - energetic - responsibility - independent, - fair, - Generous and reliable.
As can be seen, men and women draw the image, very little relevant norms of traditional masculinity. It is not primarily "Avoid any hint of femininity" and "a ban on emotion." On the contrary, and themselves, men and women in particular emphasize the emotional openness and precisely those qualities that make a man first and foremost the ability to communicate with women and children, to an understanding, not submission to others. In this new ideal is not even a hint of authoritativeness, aggressiveness, and no mention of force. Recall that family life becomes a continuation of a career for men and even a "second career" - Not in the sense of a simple reinforcement of their social status, and that the relationship with his wife and children to participate fully in family life becomes for him a way self, no less (and sometimes more!) degree than a profession. This is evident even when a man estranged from his family, continues to be full-fledged father her child - a situation that is becoming more popular and "normal" in the West.
There is no doubt that the "male" and "female" culture traditionally clearly separated, and the closer mix: women are devoting more time to professional work, while men are more personal time, give your home life. Because of this, the role of "breadwinner", it loses its rigidity and certainty, its boundaries are gradually eroded.
course this creates great difficulties for the men's socialization is still tied to the breadwinner model tratsitsionnoy. The latter is extremely typical of modern Russia, where so far more likely to talk and write about a return to certain traditional norms, distorted in the Soviet era than about the crisis of those disciplines, including including the crisis of classical notions of masculinity. That is why Russian men is more real danger of being marginalized - losers terms of the requirements of traditional male roles and at the same time losers in the current role, yet a state of flux and open to experimentation.
This is a serious reflection on the basis of current research. Here is an article by Olga Zdravomyslova from internet magazine Women and Society
Against the backdrop of social and political upheavals of the last time, few people pay attention to more subtle changes. Nevertheless, they have profound and lasting effect on the whole structure of our lives, as inherited from the past affect the notion of norm and deviation from the norm, of duty and freedom, the social roles that people should play. To the phenomena of this kind belongs and what is happening before our eyes, change the male role in society.
For the successful functioning of a society man, by definition, the French sociologist D. Berto, and K. Delkrua requires a "double reinforcement": professional employment and family. But by the end of the twentieth century, self-affirmation and men in family and in professional fields is more complicated.
Acquisition and preservation of the status of a male husband and father has become a serious social problem because of rising divorce rates and increasing the number of children born out of marriage. The scale of this process following figures: in "safe" countries of the European Community, the index of the number of divorces per 1000 population increased more than threefold between 1960 and 1992. In the past five years the process has slowed somewhat, but this is due not so much a tendency to strengthen the family, how much reduction in the number of marriages. In the European community, the number of children born outside marriage has increased from 8,8% per cent in 1980 to 20% in 1992. Number of families with one parent (usually - the mother) was in the early 1990's, about 11,2% of all households.
Along with the threat of loss of spousal and paternal roles, being erosion and the role of professional men. First of all, this is due to the growing threat of unemployment, increasing its size. Job loss or change, requires reducing the ambitions to become an indispensable part of life experience of a growing number of men. In addition, in the professional field intensifies competition between men and women. Professional competition "infiltrated" and the family. In the early 1970's Western sociologists have attempted to investigate and describe a family of two working spouses and family with two careers "as a fundamentally new styles, giving birth to new relations in the sphere of family power and new types of conflicts. Changes that inevitably occur in these families affect both marital and parental roles.
a growing number of Western studies describe the change in male roles in society through the term "crisis of masculinity." It is expressed primarily in the fact that the so-called traditional norms male behavior, which form a stereotype of masculinity, digestible boys and young men in the course of socialization, all in less of a success or even a simple adaptation of an adult male in society. Identify several basic rules on which the image of a "real man":
- avoidance behavior any hint of femininity, a ban on emotion, that is the extreme restraint in the expression of feelings (especially such as tenderness, love, trust, weasel),
- constant striving for achievement and social status, self-confidence,
- aggressiveness,
- intolerance towards homosexuals,
- high and "reckless" sexuality.
man with such a set of qualities, appears as an overbearing and hard winner, designed to dominate the family and society. It is assumed that he was always able to achieve the set - even the highest - goals, certainly benefit from a competitor who turned down for some reason at the height requirements carefully the requirements of man. Such a hero, of course, need a friend code of conduct which all opposites, and the scope of activities which, in practice, does not intersect with the "masculine".
No need to prove that the reality in which we live, rejects the strict regulatory both female and male roles. However, the rate of female roles were much more flexible, able to change and femininity in the minds of men are much less identified with weakness and passivity, masculinity than with physical strength and the desire for dominance and high social achievements. The secret lies in the fact that for a long time these qualities men to ensure effective execution of its key role in society - the role of family breadwinner. The famous explorer cultural anthropologist Margaret Mead, believed that the role of "social invention" and the specifically human values. Its essence is as follows: "Future a man learns that when he grows up, one of the essential things that he would have to do to become a full member of society, will ensure food of some woman and her offspring. Even in very simple societies, few men can shirk this responsibility and become vagrants misanthropes, living in solitude in the woods "(Margaret Mead, Culture and the world of childhood, MA, 1988, s.312).
Looking at how to make a" simple society ", and watching life is changing today's complex societies, Margaret Mead warned that the male role of breadwinner of the family "may be lost" (ibid.. s.309). Perhaps it is This subconscious fear of humanity is due to the persistence and even a kind of renaissance, which is experiencing periodic image of the "classical" masculinity. In Russia, this fear manifests itself much stronger than in the modern West.
turn to the contemporary Russian experience of socialization boys and young men, which is built on the images of characters in the film-fighters, "the new heroes of the modern Russian business. Here you can mark all over apparent compromise of the "classical" intellectual, unable to succeed in the "cool business" and therefore losing in the eyes of young people every attractiveness and prestige. Society as it asks the man: if you're not a winner in a fierce struggle for money and influence, then who are you? And he answers quite specifically: you are not a man because you can not even keep their family "at the proper level." As in "simple societies" described by Margaret Mead, the requirement a family, we counted men as not just a principal, but the only duties.
In early 1990 we conducted a comparative study "The Family: The East-West" in Russia and several European countries. His results showed that it was among the Russian respondents was highest percentage of family men are uniquely focused on professionaldnuyu sphere - 11% percent. In West Germany, this group was 5%, in Poland - 4%, in Eastern Germany - 3%, while in Hungary and Sweden - only 2%.
By the number of "family-oriented" men's Russia (19%) "like" only in West Germany (18%), the only country in our study, where among male respondents was the largest group of non-working wives, husbands, that is actually the "sole breadwinner". In all other countries this group of "family-oriented" men appeared in a half to two times higher. The respondents' answers to questions about the intra-life showed that tendency to design a new male role, which is typical for European countries, Russia is much weaker, and the "crisis of masculinity", according to some results much brighter. Thus, the Russian men twice as likely to express dissatisfaction with their relationships with children and the marital relationship. At the same time, they are four times more likely to argue that "the participation of the father in child care creates many problems." The vast majority of Russian men are considering the period When his wife was taking care of the child, as an exceptionally hard time, complicated by frequent family conflict. In general, their responses provide distinct impression that the family man in Russia exist within a very rigid rules and little choice: they must be either a traditional "Getters" or provide a full and final losers.
This result is quite unexpected, given the numerous studies of Soviet time show that in our recent past, the trend towards equality was dominant in the family. "Basic" Soviet model - a family with two working spouses - Was certainly not perfect, but its principal novelty in comparison with the past was that working outside the home the wife was sufficiently independent figure and could vapolnyat role as an independent, and sometimes even the main, the breadwinner in the family. Interestingly, in the Soviet Equitable family, functioned in much least due to the double employment of women, kept longing for the traditional norms and the actual reproduction of them primarily in sotsializitsii boys and young men.
In 1995, I conducted a survey among students in Moscow and economists. They described the modern successful Russian businessman, as if having before my eyes above standards of conduct "real" men. The boys pointed out that he needed rigidity and cruelty, authoritativeness, aggressiveness, perseverance in achieving goals, self-confidence and secrecy. And explained that the world is for strong men. " As you can see, the modern Russian society is actualized traditional norms of masculinity: to live outside the family, who nevertheless yavletsya important indicator of social status of men, and that You must be able to contain. Deviation from these norms is facing failure and even collapse of the real life. And because the stay on the normal "Average" in Russia is becoming more and more difficult, a man increasingly at risk of losing status, including family.
But if you still take more than one only the "monetary value" of life, no matter how true it is now in Russia, and a broader perspective and to remember our own recent experience, it appears that "the crisis of masculinity" is not fiction. Culture imperiously requires a change in rigid norms of male behavior and retention in the minds and experiences of new generations other social and psychological skills who have an obvious contradiction to traditional norms of male behavior. The question arises: is not followed Does the wake of the destruction of the traditional model of male breadwinner model of fracture behavior in general? What is the output is possible here?
Research last years have shown that today's young men in the West much more than their fathers, self-actualization became associated with family life and a relatively with fathers, with less self-affirmation in the professional arena. One could even argue that they are no longer just want to "have" a family as a reinforcement of their social status, but they want to "be" in it. One indication of this is that modern fathers have significantly more delve into the upbringing of children, spend more with time and even take in relation to children of traditionally "parent" responsibilities.
This trend was significant enough to begin to describe the modern family-oriented men as a social phenomenon of post-industrial society. For example, the Norwegian sociologists Halter, Aarseth and Nilsson were able to distinguish among the "family-oriented" men four typical shapes. First of all, - a man for whom family is a continuation of career and who through relationships with children as it increases their overall social competence. Secondly - is "a caring man" who, really, deeply emotsiolnalno included in home life, in relationships with children, seeing the family home in the sphere of its realization. Third, - "a fair man," taking on part of family responsibilities that it performs consistently and regularly. And finally - the "family idealist," which strongly extols family, announces it as their main asset, but in fact, carries a sharp line between the home and professional life while participating in the first only in word-level recognition of the importance of "family ideology".
new demands of life is reflected in the modern idea of \u200b\u200bthe perfect man. Studies conducted in 1995 in Sweden B. Bergsten and M. Back Vikling showed that most of the "ideal" consists of "twelve characteristics. The procedure most often upominiemyh as reflecting their importance to respondents of men and women. From the perspective of the men themselves, the ideal man should be - honest - well educated - just, - Cheerful - delicate - reliable - responsible - energetic - confident, - quiet, - resourceful - able to empathize.
From the standpoint of women, modern perfect man - honest - delicate - is capable of empathy - well educated - resourceful - cheerful - energetic - responsibility - independent, - fair, - Generous and reliable.
As can be seen, men and women draw the image, very little relevant norms of traditional masculinity. It is not primarily "Avoid any hint of femininity" and "a ban on emotion." On the contrary, and themselves, men and women in particular emphasize the emotional openness and precisely those qualities that make a man first and foremost the ability to communicate with women and children, to an understanding, not submission to others. In this new ideal is not even a hint of authoritativeness, aggressiveness, and no mention of force. Recall that family life becomes a continuation of a career for men and even a "second career" - Not in the sense of a simple reinforcement of their social status, and that the relationship with his wife and children to participate fully in family life becomes for him a way self, no less (and sometimes more!) degree than a profession. This is evident even when a man estranged from his family, continues to be full-fledged father her child - a situation that is becoming more popular and "normal" in the West.
There is no doubt that the "male" and "female" culture traditionally clearly separated, and the closer mix: women are devoting more time to professional work, while men are more personal time, give your home life. Because of this, the role of "breadwinner", it loses its rigidity and certainty, its boundaries are gradually eroded.
course this creates great difficulties for the men's socialization is still tied to the breadwinner model tratsitsionnoy. The latter is extremely typical of modern Russia, where so far more likely to talk and write about a return to certain traditional norms, distorted in the Soviet era than about the crisis of those disciplines, including including the crisis of classical notions of masculinity. That is why Russian men is more real danger of being marginalized - losers terms of the requirements of traditional male roles and at the same time losers in the current role, yet a state of flux and open to experimentation.
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Graph Of Anorexia Statistics
Who is childish man?
Who is childish man? We encounter them every day: at work, transport, restaurants and various events. But until then, until the wound close relationship with the representative of the "rock", we can not fully understand all of their flaws. What types of infantile men exist? And what if your partner falls into one of those types?
«sissy»
sure everyone of us at least once in their lives faced with this type of men. They tend to marry late, because they can not find a woman like her mother. And is it possible to do something that she did not like it?
course There is nothing wrong to love their mother. Moreover - a man who does not feel the warm feelings toward his mother, is at least suspect. But hold on her mother's skirt, reaching adulthood - this is clearly not characteristic of this man.
Reveal "momma's boy" is not very difficult, much more difficult - to say goodbye. After all, he seems far from the worst option for family life: as a rule, it has no bad habits (my mother had taught), well dressed (mom washes, irons, and even buys him new clothes), has savings (lives with his parents, so - saves and defers a portion of their income). Here Only problem - trying to create a family with this man you should be ready for the constant presence of her mother in law in his life. You agree to this?
«Eternal boy »
When communicating with a representative of this type of impression that he remained at heart a student - regardless of age. He is very loves freedom - mainly from its obligations. And therefore does not seek to build a career - because it will take too long, you can spend to more interesting lessons. Not looking for opportunities to buy an apartment - why, when, and you can live with their parents? Or rent an apartment with a couple of buddies? Its image life does not differ from the student - a beer with friends, computer games, television and a bit of work - just enough to enough to life. However, there are those who spend at work a lot of time, but at the same time and at the workplace still manages to have fun: surf (In chat rooms, forums, sites with jokes), playing computer games, etc.
count on long-term relationship with this man is not necessary. More precisely, with These can occur (although it is usually not particularly adept at courting), and even marry, but that's to be behind him "like a stone wall - will not work. Rather, you may have to "pull" the entire way of life and earn money to pay for family expenses. Pretty promising, is not it?
«beefcake"
These men are very fond of ... himself. They like to dress up, look good, they can not see with disheveled hair and unshaven chin (Unless it is done deliberately - to look stylish). It would seem - what's wrong? After all, most women complain that they have to make their husbands to buy new clothes or shave. But the problem is that man who closely monitors them, tend to be very selfish.
He does not like and does not recognize the "male" household chores, he would not want to help my girlfriend to carry a heavy pack, and in addition, it will always require attention and praise the person.
live with the "Narcissus" is very difficult. After all, even if we reject his reluctance to engage in household chores (assuming that he earns enough to afford a housekeeper and "heaped" technique), it is impossible to forget that with this man you are unlikely to to feel an object of admiration and awe. Did not want every woman?
What conclusion can be drawn from all of the above? Perhaps only one - to recognize in his cavalier representative of one of these types, is soon to part with him. However, you can try to re- man. However, while it was not possible to anyone, but suddenly you just lucky?
Who is childish man? We encounter them every day: at work, transport, restaurants and various events. But until then, until the wound close relationship with the representative of the "rock", we can not fully understand all of their flaws. What types of infantile men exist? And what if your partner falls into one of those types?
«sissy»
sure everyone of us at least once in their lives faced with this type of men. They tend to marry late, because they can not find a woman like her mother. And is it possible to do something that she did not like it?
course There is nothing wrong to love their mother. Moreover - a man who does not feel the warm feelings toward his mother, is at least suspect. But hold on her mother's skirt, reaching adulthood - this is clearly not characteristic of this man.
Reveal "momma's boy" is not very difficult, much more difficult - to say goodbye. After all, he seems far from the worst option for family life: as a rule, it has no bad habits (my mother had taught), well dressed (mom washes, irons, and even buys him new clothes), has savings (lives with his parents, so - saves and defers a portion of their income). Here Only problem - trying to create a family with this man you should be ready for the constant presence of her mother in law in his life. You agree to this?
«Eternal boy »
When communicating with a representative of this type of impression that he remained at heart a student - regardless of age. He is very loves freedom - mainly from its obligations. And therefore does not seek to build a career - because it will take too long, you can spend to more interesting lessons. Not looking for opportunities to buy an apartment - why, when, and you can live with their parents? Or rent an apartment with a couple of buddies? Its image life does not differ from the student - a beer with friends, computer games, television and a bit of work - just enough to enough to life. However, there are those who spend at work a lot of time, but at the same time and at the workplace still manages to have fun: surf (In chat rooms, forums, sites with jokes), playing computer games, etc.
count on long-term relationship with this man is not necessary. More precisely, with These can occur (although it is usually not particularly adept at courting), and even marry, but that's to be behind him "like a stone wall - will not work. Rather, you may have to "pull" the entire way of life and earn money to pay for family expenses. Pretty promising, is not it?
«beefcake"
These men are very fond of ... himself. They like to dress up, look good, they can not see with disheveled hair and unshaven chin (Unless it is done deliberately - to look stylish). It would seem - what's wrong? After all, most women complain that they have to make their husbands to buy new clothes or shave. But the problem is that man who closely monitors them, tend to be very selfish.
He does not like and does not recognize the "male" household chores, he would not want to help my girlfriend to carry a heavy pack, and in addition, it will always require attention and praise the person.
live with the "Narcissus" is very difficult. After all, even if we reject his reluctance to engage in household chores (assuming that he earns enough to afford a housekeeper and "heaped" technique), it is impossible to forget that with this man you are unlikely to to feel an object of admiration and awe. Did not want every woman?
What conclusion can be drawn from all of the above? Perhaps only one - to recognize in his cavalier representative of one of these types, is soon to part with him. However, you can try to re- man. However, while it was not possible to anyone, but suddenly you just lucky?
Thursday, May 6, 2010
How Best To Clean My White Leather Sofa
Men: Sex and the thought process
Sex and a thought process - things that are seemingly incompatible. But it is at first glance. What's going on in the minds of men during sex? Glimpses of whether they have a head any thoughts, and if so, what?
1. Lack of ideas or thoughts associated with the partner
absence of any ideas - the most natural state for man's mind during sex. Then the man completely internally immersed in the process. And if a man and go to any thoughts, they are connected with a partner. Male mentally gets pleasure from the contemplation of the body partner, of touching her, fondling her. He is a pleasure the idea of \u200b\u200ba beautiful woman he has sex.
2. Focusing on yourself during sex
can call it exhibitionism and egotism. Partner, a sense of intimacy with her moving away for him to second place. Sex for him a kind of fun, play. In addition to physical pleasure a man gets pleasure from mental, "which he cool" how to move his body, receives pleasure at the thought of how he must have courage now appears, enjoy the contemplation of how his partner is a member.
3. Thoughts related with posture and technique sex
Similar thoughts wander briefly to the head man. For instance, "whether it is time to change position," "interesting, but not whether it simulates an orgasm" "We are too close to the edge of the bed, you need to move away a little," "I will soon be over."
4.Postoronnie thoughts generated problems
These thoughts are related with more important things for him and unsolved problems. For example, half an hour before you have sex, he got a call from work and was told that tomorrow should will drive up an hour earlier, and yet he still had time to stop by the sink.
Or lost a favorite team, winning in the course of the match. Or every other day March 8, but he did not choose you a gift. Although he engaged in sex, but does not receive the full enjoyment, and thoughts about the unresolved issues all the time to climb it in the head, writes beautiful and successful.
5. Immersion in erotic fantasies
According to surveys, about one third of men who have sex regularly plunge in their erotic fantasies. Usually, these fantasies are not associated with a partner - just getting physical pleasure from sex with her, man changes mind her, imagining that having sex with another.
example, is what makes it a blonde with a magnificent breasts, which he had seen recently on the street. Or imagines that apart from your partner is near another girl, and they have sex threesome. Or, for example, is a hero orgy of recently viewed porn.
Frequent immersion in erotic fantasies says that man is not enough new experiences and diversity in sex, which usually results to a desire to find a partner on the side and changed.
Sex and a thought process - things that are seemingly incompatible. But it is at first glance. What's going on in the minds of men during sex? Glimpses of whether they have a head any thoughts, and if so, what?
1. Lack of ideas or thoughts associated with the partner
absence of any ideas - the most natural state for man's mind during sex. Then the man completely internally immersed in the process. And if a man and go to any thoughts, they are connected with a partner. Male mentally gets pleasure from the contemplation of the body partner, of touching her, fondling her. He is a pleasure the idea of \u200b\u200ba beautiful woman he has sex.
2. Focusing on yourself during sex
can call it exhibitionism and egotism. Partner, a sense of intimacy with her moving away for him to second place. Sex for him a kind of fun, play. In addition to physical pleasure a man gets pleasure from mental, "which he cool" how to move his body, receives pleasure at the thought of how he must have courage now appears, enjoy the contemplation of how his partner is a member.
3. Thoughts related with posture and technique sex
Similar thoughts wander briefly to the head man. For instance, "whether it is time to change position," "interesting, but not whether it simulates an orgasm" "We are too close to the edge of the bed, you need to move away a little," "I will soon be over."
4.Postoronnie thoughts generated problems
These thoughts are related with more important things for him and unsolved problems. For example, half an hour before you have sex, he got a call from work and was told that tomorrow should will drive up an hour earlier, and yet he still had time to stop by the sink.
Or lost a favorite team, winning in the course of the match. Or every other day March 8, but he did not choose you a gift. Although he engaged in sex, but does not receive the full enjoyment, and thoughts about the unresolved issues all the time to climb it in the head, writes beautiful and successful.
5. Immersion in erotic fantasies
According to surveys, about one third of men who have sex regularly plunge in their erotic fantasies. Usually, these fantasies are not associated with a partner - just getting physical pleasure from sex with her, man changes mind her, imagining that having sex with another.
example, is what makes it a blonde with a magnificent breasts, which he had seen recently on the street. Or imagines that apart from your partner is near another girl, and they have sex threesome. Or, for example, is a hero orgy of recently viewed porn.
Frequent immersion in erotic fantasies says that man is not enough new experiences and diversity in sex, which usually results to a desire to find a partner on the side and changed.
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Men: We have more IQ - less change
Men with high intellectual level of most monogamous and not prone to adultery. This unexpected fact established a scientific team from the famous London School of Economics and Political Science. The study is published in the journal "Social Psychology.
team leader Professor Satoshi Kanazawa analyzed data from two large surveys, investigating the association between IQ and social human behavior. Empirical scientist has concluded - smarter than men, the more they tend to be loyal to his beloved.
According to Kanazawa, reason for this line of intellectuals lies in the evolutionary development. Monogamy is largely a recent phenomenon in human development and presents an "evolutionary novelty". In the process of becoming a polygamous man allowed to maintain genetic features of Homo sapiens. However, in modern civilization This need has disappeared.
However, not all men are able to reject "the legacy of the previous millennium and enter a new phase of evolution, says Kanazawa.
For women, their loyalty or disloyalty is not determined by the intellectual level. "The evidence, or even indications that more a clever woman is both more faithful to my wife, we found there was "- said Kanazawa.
Men with high intellectual level of most monogamous and not prone to adultery. This unexpected fact established a scientific team from the famous London School of Economics and Political Science. The study is published in the journal "Social Psychology.
team leader Professor Satoshi Kanazawa analyzed data from two large surveys, investigating the association between IQ and social human behavior. Empirical scientist has concluded - smarter than men, the more they tend to be loyal to his beloved.
According to Kanazawa, reason for this line of intellectuals lies in the evolutionary development. Monogamy is largely a recent phenomenon in human development and presents an "evolutionary novelty". In the process of becoming a polygamous man allowed to maintain genetic features of Homo sapiens. However, in modern civilization This need has disappeared.
However, not all men are able to reject "the legacy of the previous millennium and enter a new phase of evolution, says Kanazawa.
For women, their loyalty or disloyalty is not determined by the intellectual level. "The evidence, or even indications that more a clever woman is both more faithful to my wife, we found there was "- said Kanazawa.
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difference between a man and a woman
I quote some excerpts from the book by Francis Fukuyyamy "great divide"
mother's presence is vital to the welfare of the baby, and many kinds of deviant behaviors, which manifest themselves later in life may have in their headwaters on the cleavage of her mother - a child at a relatively early age
role of men in child care more problematic
There is, for example, the relatively low natural limit to the number of offspring a woman can make in their lifetime, compared with the number of children who can conceive a man: a woman can give birth during the life of about a dozen children, while men can produce thousands of. Woman thus increase the chances to pass on their genes, if present for a mate high requirements - first, to provide their children the best genes are available, and, secondly, to guarantee them access to resources after the birth of man. Men, on the other hand, seeking to maximize their chances of gene transfer by mating with the largest possible number of partners.
The fact that women in their choice of sexual partner, as a rule, more selective than men is true not only for virtually all human cultures, but also for all kinds of animals that reproduce sexually.
In other words, men are biologically predisposed to be less choosy than women
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men and women differently look at physical intimacy. For men it is - an opportunity to undo belt; for women - the chance to involve men in relation to greater intimacy. Even if both engage in sexual contact, their intentions are different, and one of the participants in the end is usually left cheated.
I quote some excerpts from the book by Francis Fukuyyamy "great divide"
mother's presence is vital to the welfare of the baby, and many kinds of deviant behaviors, which manifest themselves later in life may have in their headwaters on the cleavage of her mother - a child at a relatively early age
role of men in child care more problematic
There is, for example, the relatively low natural limit to the number of offspring a woman can make in their lifetime, compared with the number of children who can conceive a man: a woman can give birth during the life of about a dozen children, while men can produce thousands of. Woman thus increase the chances to pass on their genes, if present for a mate high requirements - first, to provide their children the best genes are available, and, secondly, to guarantee them access to resources after the birth of man. Men, on the other hand, seeking to maximize their chances of gene transfer by mating with the largest possible number of partners.
The fact that women in their choice of sexual partner, as a rule, more selective than men is true not only for virtually all human cultures, but also for all kinds of animals that reproduce sexually.
In other words, men are biologically predisposed to be less choosy than women
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men and women differently look at physical intimacy. For men it is - an opportunity to undo belt; for women - the chance to involve men in relation to greater intimacy. Even if both engage in sexual contact, their intentions are different, and one of the participants in the end is usually left cheated.
Monday, May 3, 2010
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one thing reality
one thing to reality. We can say life forces.
Another matter how it is perceived and felt.
I would like to ask women. They would like to see her husband, wash clothes, washing the dishes, change diapers, etc.?
I'm not talking about one day a year - on March 8. I'm talking about everyday of your life.
Maybe women want a man such a knight.
I'll wait with the answers
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one thing to reality. We can say life forces.
Another matter how it is perceived and felt.
I would like to ask women. They would like to see her husband, wash clothes, washing the dishes, change diapers, etc.?
I'm not talking about one day a year - on March 8. I'm talking about everyday of your life.
Maybe women want a man such a knight.
I'll wait with the answers
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Do not cry. You're a man!
Thanks to those who made comments. But the question is not about me. Question indeed the situation of men in society. Man and woman are different in nature. Purpose they have for life is different. And they are trying to unify, to make identical. And in many cases can replace the men recruit a woman and even pay her a little lower.
look around. In young families, both must work in order to achieve a decent standard of living. Almost at the same salary will have to eke out a miserable existence. Nowhere in the state level is not considered a model family. Yes, when people talk about shopping for a living take a family of four. Two adults and two children. On this all ends.
Next. Now say the boy: "Do not cry. You're a man!" impossible. Then you need to explain what a "man" and can be trapped.
Now it turns became fashionable men are sensitive, which can and a little cry.
mandatory conscription into the army there. Not at least a minimum of widespread physical and moral conditioning.
I do not know the correct answer as it should be, but clearly, something is wrong. And I have to be at least two sides. I have two adult daughters with their families formed a third daughter, only now forming a family.
With plenty good enough for their various problems is on this basis. On the basis of understanding the role of men and women in society and family.
practice their so-called family partnership in which both operate and have roughly equal incomes as husband and wife. And now look at the rest. On the one hand broscheny children at the school, kindergarten, nanny, grandparents. The children still evening, when both came from work tired.
Naturally, participation of each party in all areas of family should be identical. Look real. During the time when the husband and wife at home and need to wash and prepare food and work out with the children ....
What happens? A woman stands on second shift. Is that bad? Of course a bad thing.
Moms and dads sons. Now you explain to her son, man, that in the near buduyuschem he will have all of these to deal with. Change diapers, throw the car dirty laundry, peeling potatoes. Teach him that. Something does not fit? And since it does not fit in, wait for the problems in his family life. He must be prepared psychologically, that tomorrow he will get along with his wife and maybe even less. And maybe will have in general some time to sit on her neck. Do you think this is fantasy. Look around and you'll be surprised how much I am right. Therefore, a need to prepare children to such a life, or at the state level to change the model family. I understand how difficult it is.
why I took up this theme. Of course it all and intersects with issues Family and status of the woman in modern society.
little joke. I started asking women how they were male. Answer: "Well this is ... he has this thing ... Generally speaking, I can not do without it "
Thanks to those who made comments. But the question is not about me. Question indeed the situation of men in society. Man and woman are different in nature. Purpose they have for life is different. And they are trying to unify, to make identical. And in many cases can replace the men recruit a woman and even pay her a little lower.
look around. In young families, both must work in order to achieve a decent standard of living. Almost at the same salary will have to eke out a miserable existence. Nowhere in the state level is not considered a model family. Yes, when people talk about shopping for a living take a family of four. Two adults and two children. On this all ends.
Next. Now say the boy: "Do not cry. You're a man!" impossible. Then you need to explain what a "man" and can be trapped.
Now it turns became fashionable men are sensitive, which can and a little cry.
mandatory conscription into the army there. Not at least a minimum of widespread physical and moral conditioning.
I do not know the correct answer as it should be, but clearly, something is wrong. And I have to be at least two sides. I have two adult daughters with their families formed a third daughter, only now forming a family.
With plenty good enough for their various problems is on this basis. On the basis of understanding the role of men and women in society and family.
practice their so-called family partnership in which both operate and have roughly equal incomes as husband and wife. And now look at the rest. On the one hand broscheny children at the school, kindergarten, nanny, grandparents. The children still evening, when both came from work tired.
Naturally, participation of each party in all areas of family should be identical. Look real. During the time when the husband and wife at home and need to wash and prepare food and work out with the children ....
What happens? A woman stands on second shift. Is that bad? Of course a bad thing.
Moms and dads sons. Now you explain to her son, man, that in the near buduyuschem he will have all of these to deal with. Change diapers, throw the car dirty laundry, peeling potatoes. Teach him that. Something does not fit? And since it does not fit in, wait for the problems in his family life. He must be prepared psychologically, that tomorrow he will get along with his wife and maybe even less. And maybe will have in general some time to sit on her neck. Do you think this is fantasy. Look around and you'll be surprised how much I am right. Therefore, a need to prepare children to such a life, or at the state level to change the model family. I understand how difficult it is.
why I took up this theme. Of course it all and intersects with issues Family and status of the woman in modern society.
little joke. I started asking women how they were male. Answer: "Well this is ... he has this thing ... Generally speaking, I can not do without it "
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Who needs it - be a model family? And why this model is needed if there is among the Russian and among Argentines men who can work and at home that you delat.A is such that only rabotayut.Esche there are those who do not work and at home doing nothing, but there naoborot.Kazhdomu own and everyone does what he found, or those closer to him.
Who needs it - be a model family? And why this model is needed if there is among the Russian and among Argentines men who can work and at home that you delat.A is such that only rabotayut.Esche there are those who do not work and at home doing nothing, but there naoborot.Kazhdomu own and everyone does what he found, or those closer to him.
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At first, everything was clear. A strange feeling about yourself. Felt somehow awkward. Thought, that's emigration, moving to another country, this is the reason everything. Nina as it quickly found a job and still working without interruption in a country where unemployment is large enough. And I do that? Then it became clearer. Age. Yes, age, here in Argentina, is of great importance. If you are under 35 are not wedged somewhere after that is quite difficult. Of course, I can not say that it is not possible. It is difficult - that's for sure.
And I made a big mistake on the top. Started talking I'm an engineer. Already, I understand that in no case should not have to do it. Here, an engineer - a status. You must live in a certain area, to receive certain money to go to the appropriate machine, and so on. All this I had no idea.
Bringing your kurikullum I could not ask for any work. Yes, and still would not given. At best, they told me that we'll call you. A single call and not wait.
were needed communications. Found. Promised to help. But here came unexpectedly crisis 2001. Those who promised to help themselves had to stay.
Year after year went on, and getting harder and harder. Talked about working with everyone and everywhere. One day, just started talking with a fellow traveler in the train. Sketched him my situation in brief. Like, now can not find anything. He says to me: "And do not try, only to lose time. To start something myself to do. Build his system. "
It really is an effect. Slowly began to unwind its business.
started watching what also engaged in real local Argentineans. A neighbor on the contrary, the same age as I, too, probably "flew out of the saddle" sought at this time work. Having a professional driver's license and experience. Talking with me, complained. Do not take. Age, health and so on. Find fault with everything, but with the age you have no rival.
Another friend of mine in his car trying to podzarabatyvat remission (local taxi). Actually it looked like. He was early in the morning somehow wound up his car and went to work. Brought 30 - 50 pesos back home for food. But at the end of the week turned out that he still owes the owner AGENCY a commission in the car something broken. And on Saturday had to beg his wife's 200 pesos to repair the machine or to pay insurance to next Monday again return to work.
I tell him: "Have you ever thought your" business ". You're in complete zeros. What you earn, then spend."
He answers me: "I can not stay home. How am I going to sit at home and my wife will earn? "
But you did not earn, I repeated.
So he continues to live. Like walking to work and like earning.
accept the idea that a man should sit at home and do homework, he could not.
I have enough sense not to jam on it and when Nina worked as I did all the housework. True, it was hoped that someday this must end. But it is not ended. Similar situation, I saw everywhere.
disappeared Where is the model of the family when the male - the breadwinner went to work that morning, and his wife - homemakers to stay home with children.
neighbor on the contrary, probably understanding the situation, was included in family life, at a time when his wife picked for a penny religious crosses.
My friend went on to play the role of breadwinner which long ago was not.
Who needs it? Damn capitalism? But not only. After all, if socialism is potrebovaloas job and husband and wife. That is not formed the patriarchal family and the partner family. This is when both work. But here's a hitch. On the second shift is mainly becoming a woman. Laundry, cooking, cleaning. A man like that this is not stretched. Repairs can be, where not passed.
I sometimes jokingly tell Nina that the hierarchy of the world's next. First comes a man, then woman and her cattle. She immediately start. Funny.
But if a man honestly imagine what model he has in mind with respect to a woman I do not think it will be different from the above. It is to be honest. I do not think that modern man finds himself on a par with a woman, or even below it. A real world shows something quite different. That men are in error.
Each man has as many women as he has money. Funny! Yes, funny and sad. The entire Muslim world lives by this principle is almost officially. The modern world is also on this principle, but do not want to admit it. True, added to the formula and vice versa.
This question is interesting. Many examples. I will write more.
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