Thanks to those who made comments. But the question is not about me. Question indeed the situation of men in society. Man and woman are different in nature. Purpose they have for life is different. And they are trying to unify, to make identical. And in many cases can replace the men recruit a woman and even pay her a little lower.
look around. In young families, both must work in order to achieve a decent standard of living. Almost at the same salary will have to eke out a miserable existence. Nowhere in the state level is not considered a model family. Yes, when people talk about shopping for a living take a family of four. Two adults and two children. On this all ends.
Next. Now say the boy: "Do not cry. You're a man!" impossible. Then you need to explain what a "man" and can be trapped.
Now it turns became fashionable men are sensitive, which can and a little cry.
mandatory conscription into the army there. Not at least a minimum of widespread physical and moral conditioning.
I do not know the correct answer as it should be, but clearly, something is wrong. And I have to be at least two sides. I have two adult daughters with their families formed a third daughter, only now forming a family.
With plenty good enough for their various problems is on this basis. On the basis of understanding the role of men and women in society and family.
practice their so-called family partnership in which both operate and have roughly equal incomes as husband and wife. And now look at the rest. On the one hand broscheny children at the school, kindergarten, nanny, grandparents. The children still evening, when both came from work tired.
Naturally, participation of each party in all areas of family should be identical. Look real. During the time when the husband and wife at home and need to wash and prepare food and work out with the children ....
What happens? A woman stands on second shift. Is that bad? Of course a bad thing.
Moms and dads sons. Now you explain to her son, man, that in the near buduyuschem he will have all of these to deal with. Change diapers, throw the car dirty laundry, peeling potatoes. Teach him that. Something does not fit? And since it does not fit in, wait for the problems in his family life. He must be prepared psychologically, that tomorrow he will get along with his wife and maybe even less. And maybe will have in general some time to sit on her neck. Do you think this is fantasy. Look around and you'll be surprised how much I am right. Therefore, a need to prepare children to such a life, or at the state level to change the model family. I understand how difficult it is.
why I took up this theme. Of course it all and intersects with issues Family and status of the woman in modern society.
little joke. I started asking women how they were male. Answer: "Well this is ... he has this thing ... Generally speaking, I can not do without it "
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