At first, everything was clear. A strange feeling about yourself. Felt somehow awkward. Thought, that's emigration, moving to another country, this is the reason everything. Nina as it quickly found a job and still working without interruption in a country where unemployment is large enough. And I do that? Then it became clearer. Age. Yes, age, here in Argentina, is of great importance. If you are under 35 are not wedged somewhere after that is quite difficult. Of course, I can not say that it is not possible. It is difficult - that's for sure.
And I made a big mistake on the top. Started talking I'm an engineer. Already, I understand that in no case should not have to do it. Here, an engineer - a status. You must live in a certain area, to receive certain money to go to the appropriate machine, and so on. All this I had no idea.
Bringing your kurikullum I could not ask for any work. Yes, and still would not given. At best, they told me that we'll call you. A single call and not wait.
were needed communications. Found. Promised to help. But here came unexpectedly crisis 2001. Those who promised to help themselves had to stay.
Year after year went on, and getting harder and harder. Talked about working with everyone and everywhere. One day, just started talking with a fellow traveler in the train. Sketched him my situation in brief. Like, now can not find anything. He says to me: "And do not try, only to lose time. To start something myself to do. Build his system. "
It really is an effect. Slowly began to unwind its business.
started watching what also engaged in real local Argentineans. A neighbor on the contrary, the same age as I, too, probably "flew out of the saddle" sought at this time work. Having a professional driver's license and experience. Talking with me, complained. Do not take. Age, health and so on. Find fault with everything, but with the age you have no rival.
Another friend of mine in his car trying to podzarabatyvat remission (local taxi). Actually it looked like. He was early in the morning somehow wound up his car and went to work. Brought 30 - 50 pesos back home for food. But at the end of the week turned out that he still owes the owner AGENCY a commission in the car something broken. And on Saturday had to beg his wife's 200 pesos to repair the machine or to pay insurance to next Monday again return to work.
I tell him: "Have you ever thought your" business ". You're in complete zeros. What you earn, then spend."
He answers me: "I can not stay home. How am I going to sit at home and my wife will earn? "
But you did not earn, I repeated.
So he continues to live. Like walking to work and like earning.
accept the idea that a man should sit at home and do homework, he could not.
I have enough sense not to jam on it and when Nina worked as I did all the housework. True, it was hoped that someday this must end. But it is not ended. Similar situation, I saw everywhere.
disappeared Where is the model of the family when the male - the breadwinner went to work that morning, and his wife - homemakers to stay home with children.
neighbor on the contrary, probably understanding the situation, was included in family life, at a time when his wife picked for a penny religious crosses.
My friend went on to play the role of breadwinner which long ago was not.
Who needs it? Damn capitalism? But not only. After all, if socialism is potrebovaloas job and husband and wife. That is not formed the patriarchal family and the partner family. This is when both work. But here's a hitch. On the second shift is mainly becoming a woman. Laundry, cooking, cleaning. A man like that this is not stretched. Repairs can be, where not passed.
I sometimes jokingly tell Nina that the hierarchy of the world's next. First comes a man, then woman and her cattle. She immediately start. Funny.
But if a man honestly imagine what model he has in mind with respect to a woman I do not think it will be different from the above. It is to be honest. I do not think that modern man finds himself on a par with a woman, or even below it. A real world shows something quite different. That men are in error.
Each man has as many women as he has money. Funny! Yes, funny and sad. The entire Muslim world lives by this principle is almost officially. The modern world is also on this principle, but do not want to admit it. True, added to the formula and vice versa.
This question is interesting. Many examples. I will write more.
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