Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Letter For Pregnant Women
site woman.ru recently found an interesting correspondence is just on the topic. Bring her with their comments.
One woman asked her tribeswoman:
itself raises her son alone, and I notice that compared with boys growing even with a father or mother, my one lost and not confident. Went on 1 September to him in class and noticed such a thing: a boy growing up without fathers sit as a silent, but those who have the pope live in families on the contrary, such a loud, aggressive in a good sense of the word.
I do not know, maybe my question will certainly to whom it is not relevant. because I understand that a single mom, a priori, has financial problems in our country and certainly not to the point that would pay vnimaenie on such trifles.
But still, I think that a woman alone without a father can not raise a real man. All the same, the boy will be missed masculinity and there will be more feminine qualities.
And it's not in the boxing circles, and that women are simply not able to give him a male perspective on the world. He sees the world mother's eyes. so this boy grows feminine and weak.
That's my point of view. What do you think?
I see this woman is subconsciously generate a model man. Probably it happened at the family-based parent. And it is concerned about what her son did not fit in this model. Itself is not aware of it raises the question of significant changes in modern society. Changes in gender roles in society.
Here is also some comment to post this woman.
Yes, you ARE a son wimp, what you say? - wrote one of the readers
And also clearly manifested the same model, which is not quite the same as the modern one. A man should be so athletic hero who look down on everything and overcomes all difficulties. This is the same as that of all women compared to a fashion magazine cover, where the pose of the model.
Here's another comment
author of course you are right, but on the other hand, a male view of the world can give the modern man? That lie on the couch is the norm that women should work, but man sit at the computer and run a beer:
Here is an explicit requirement to divide the resistance and wear of the household at least.
And here's a comment on this comment. This man has already said:
Yes it is this pattern of behavior postseksistkaya man should be vaccinated every boy, otherwise it all life will be like a slave to plow the woman and by the age of forty skates throw even well if by that time his wife will not leave, but is likely to quit, because respect for him will not, but love and a fortiori
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