lack of faith and uncertainty are the things of the same order. That would not have been done in a state of uncertainty - it's done bad. The higher the voltage of the desire to act well, the worse the result. Lack of faith in their abilities, along with the overestimation of the external problems leads to a state of stiffness or numbness. The nature of torpor is the fact that constraint clamps itself, the importance of foreign targets generates agonizing desire to achieve it, the importance of internal cast doubt on their ability, all of this together is discharged into uncertainty.
Uncertainty in the form of an alarm is generated forecast "what if?" and in the state of uncertainty, usually pessimistic outlook ... Anxiety, insecurity, fear - Are powerful generators of the worst expectations, which is usually true. Uncertainty creates a vicious circle - the more the importance and the desire, the greater the uncertainty, the stronger the grip of control over himself and the situation - the stronger the constraint, the greater the anxiety and worry - the more likely they are justified, guilt at all makes life miserable prozibanie loser. Way to gain confidence is, that would not build a foundation of confidence and play vvabank. Confidence - This exact same timidity, only turned inside out, is when out of nowhere there is the appearance of what should not be there. To deal with uncertainty is useless, it is impossible to hide behind a screen of false courage, force yourself to be sure - is also useless. Completely pointless to force yourself to be brave and resolute, when in fact it is not. Confidence can not develop - it is the same as the energy - or it there or not. The paradox is this - to find confidence to give it up.
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