Of what men were before, we have the representation, and the deeper into history, so this idea clearer. Why: cave man - a hunter and warrior, Ancient man - a warrior, Caesar and the hero, the medieval man - a monk, a monarch, a merchant, and again a warrior, I mean Knight ... what next? And more and more difficult. Here, for example, that the phenomenon is a modern man? Psychologists give us about our contemporaries six facts.
Modern men believe that they got more than fathers
Oh, yes. Here argue is not necessary. After all, on the one hand, the modern men need to be attentive, caring, passionate, sociable. On the other hand, they are still waiting for manifestations of the quality of this macho. Such conflicting demands cause stress for most men. Want more proof that modern men are heavier than their fathers and grandfathers? Please: Our contemporaries often can not be considered their own fathers, role models.
Stress affects their sexual activity
main problem with men in sexual matters - not the disease, elementary and lack of desire. Sexology confirm that 10 years ago with the problems of the libido to be treated mainly by women. Today, the number of male patients significantly more than the number of female patients. Lack of sexual desire doctors is simple: inner tension, stress, problems at work.
Modern men rather late start a family
In terms of physiology to have children early are not necessarily: in our days in the case Why you can rely on IVF and other achievements of modern medicine. But the reason for the increase in age at marriage was not in it. Rather, the problem exaggerated claims that women are now placing a potential mate.
Women looking for a man with a good education, good work, educated and ready for marriage. It turns out that the number of potential suitors is extremely narrow. Those men, who possess all the above qualities, have a huge advantage, because they have virtually no competitors. So the man of this rare species might well afford to say: "What marry me, I also only twenty-five years! »
Men are more and more used to the fact that the woman earns more
Modern men are not strongly worry if their partner earns more. In fact, sometimes they even hope to equal relations in the financial field: for example, in this , a woman earned more - it does not matter. Next year he will earn more.
Sociologists attribute this to the fact that men are beginning to consider a joint economy as a kind of "long-distance race", that is, they care more about the very possibility of joint efforts to buy a house than the degree of contribution of each a "common pot". They have finally realized that the unification of efforts much more productive than finding out who is "cooler".
They still feel threatened if a woman successful
modern woman does not only reproductive (fertility), but also productive (economic) function in relationships. This position of our contemporaries rather heavy toll on her man. Function "getter" for the modern man away, and instead offered nothing. Children bear he can not, here is not just a feeling that he had nothing to bring to the partnership, but also a sense of their own irrelevance.
male friendship is very useful for women
One modern men have learned from women: what is friendship with a person of one sex with you something very useful and duhopodemnaya. Strong male friendship, say psychologists, is an extremely positive effect on the relationship between a man with a partner or a wife: the ability to make friends helps men better understand their feelings and take the moral support from loved ones.
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